Hmm. Only time a condom was ever uncomfortable for me was when we'd been going at it for a really long time, but that can be uncomfortable even without. Same for masturbation. There is a point beyond which lubrication does not help; there are already friction burns. I'm not sure I have any primal urges besides the actual desire to have sex.
Well, my closest friend is an unmarried househusband who cleans even less than I do. (He and/or his GF have some hoarding problems. My place always looks sparkling and spacious after seeing theirs.) It's not like I've never worked, I just prefer not to unless absolutely necessary. Don't worry, I do not get govt aid of any sort.
That is good news, and make-up sex is the best EVER. emotion_awesome Were you both living with her parents or did you have your own place?