They're pretty friendly (even though some people can be sassy). At least you didn't go over to Syndrone. There's a scandal going on with that site which includes the site owner taking $5,000 in donations for personal use.
So many people have left. In my case, I still have friends here, and Solia can get very slow some days. I even took the weekend off from Solia last month because I wanted to quit the site for personal reasons (but was convinced to take a break).
Hmmm I suppose an update is in order. I currently live in WA, but will be moving to MA this fall to attend UMASS and major in Japanese. I used to love ZOMG, now I just love the ZOMG friends I have made. They are what keeps me coming back to gaia. That and the ******** cute avis.
Update: I'm 98% gay, but I fell in love with a boy who's off in the air force. I write him letters every day. I guess you could say I'm pan/bisexual, but I like to refer to myself as a bisexual lesbian. Cuz I really like them girls, I just happened to fall in love with a boy.