Are you in love or are you not sure yet? If you are, you guys should get married so you two can be together where you get stationed at. If I were you, i'd talk to your guy/girl about what would be best for the two of you, because its not easy being married to someone in the military. You both have to be strong && not give up on eachother, you also need to have a lot of trust in eachother, you're going to have to go (sometimes months) without being able to see/talk to eachother. If you guys can do that, then you should get married. My husband has been in the Marines for four years. Hes currently doing his non-active years right now. Once a Marine, always a Marine! On December 31st, we will be married for four years. We lived on Camp Pendleton, Cali., && everyone there was really nice, && you don't have to worry about bad stuff happening there because everyone there is trained to protect, but if you got a house on base, then you have rules on how to keep your home clean, to mow your lawn, && things like that. If you live off base, the military will pay you a little extra to help you pay your apartment/house payments. The most he was deployed for was 9 months. During those nine months, I hung out with a lot of family && friends to help make the time go by faster.
If you have anymore questions, i'll be happy to answer them. :]