But at the same time, knowing that he is still hurting, he can arrange to be away while you are there. Or just man up and deal with it.
That's a little weird too, I understand what he is doing. But you seem like a big girl, I'm sure you can take care of yourself just fine.
Oh yea, that complicates things a bit. As does him not being over you. But in all honesty, if he really cared so much about you, he would let it go seeing that that is what you want and sulk silently until he has gotten over it as well.
He's still bugging you? Sheesh!
I've had terrific luck with the after breakup part of past relationships. Out of the 4 before my wife, two I still talk to, one moved away, and one is batshit crazy so I don't hear from her haha.