Most friends who know me know my real name, but most choose to call me Lei, since I've gone by that for all 7 years I've been on and off Gaia now. I prefer Lei over any other shortenings of my username but I won't pitch a b***h fit if you use something else.
I'm in a committed relationship with a man 15 years my senior, and I don't really care what anyone else thinks about it. I'm unapologetically pro-choice, pro-gay marriage, pro-SAFE and knowledgeable gun use, anti-either governmental party ( I fall more liberal than conservative, but I don't fall to the extreme and do agree with either party AT TIMES ), and not a bit religious at all. I firmly believe NO laws whatsoever should be made to deny ANY person, male, female, hetero or homosexual ANY human rights, period. Human rights are human rights, no matter what form of human you are.
I'm pro-kink and pro-sexuality, and I don't hide it, but I don't go about and flaunt it, either. I'm a part time chainmail model and salesperson as well as a line/prep chef. My time for Gaia gets more and more limited as I get older but I still love coming on and dressing up my avatar when I can and buying shiny new or old things. I travel a lot as a chainmail model, and love every minute of it. I model at Renaissance fairs, sci-fi cons, gaming cons, furry cons, and fetish events. I'm hoping to expand into more fetish modeling, specifically rope and/or rope suspension. FOR THE RECORD, FETISH MODEL =/= PORNOGRAPHIC MODEL. I'm very much a nerd at heart, I love a good LARP or RP, playing D&D with my boyfriend and friends, and geeking out over how gorgeous my dice set is, watching or reading sci-fi and fantasy novels, or just relaxing playing a computer or console game.
My goals in life are as lofty as wanting to publish any one of my ideas into novels or a series of novels, or make my RPG idea come to life, or as simple learning to make sushi for my love, learning different cultural dances ( bellydancing and a traditional geisha dance are at the top of my list ), becoming a better Dagohir fighter, to becoming a better D&D player.
If you think we have things in common, feel free to drop me a line. Blatant P.M.s to attack any of my beliefs or who I am as a person will be promptly deleted and not responded to. I am me, and you sure as hell aren't going to change me with a vicious P.M. on what a terrible person and how I'm going to burn in hell.
come chat with us?