I'm also concerned because I am pagan, my fiance is an atheist, and my family is all very conservative Christian. I want there to be pagan influences in my wedding such as purification rituals beforehand and handfasting. I haven't really discussed with my immediate family my beliefs. I will be doing this soon, though. I had another pagan friend do a tarot reading for the year for me and January looks favorable. So before the end of the month i will be sitting them down and explaining to them.