I simply log on to social with other people who still have a strong interest in the old/outdated things. I don't own a home here, and I rarely visit Towns. As for guilds, it's pretty difficult to find a decent one where it does not die under a month, so i'll pretty much ignore any invites I receive unless I see that it's lively. No, I don't donate randomly (perhaps out of generosity after we socialize) nor do I accept random friend invites.
On the other hand, I like to post random pictures on here for others to see~