: Preparing to go to college abroad in Denmark. If you know a Dane that lives in Aalborg or Copenhagen, hit me up!
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Here's a little bit about me.
Beforehand Warning of parts on the below content: I am a real life Dominatrix ;]
For a start, I prefer to be referred to as Miss Jade
. If you consider yourself particularly submissive, you may add whatever title you want in front, ranging from Ma'am to Madam, but I reserve the title of Mistress only for owned subs.
I am for the time being in a committed monogamous relationship & that implies that I am not interested in anyone here or anywhere else as far as romance & sex goes. Disregard this at your own risk. wink
Please, try to not message me with forward attempts to flirt, interest in cybering, meeting IRL or other offers of that kind, especially if I don't even know who you are.
I'm also not here to entertain you or educate you at basic levels. This means that the interaction has to be two-sided. If you message me with the intent of just being entertained, you'll most likely be ignored.
I will try my best to reply to PMs; however do not be upset or think that I am ignoring you if the reply gets a couple days (or more) delayed. I'm generally a busy person, although each new PM from anyone that respects me makes this young lady a happy young lady. smile
I never follow Threads I post replies in, so if you have something to say to what I post, please quote me or PM.
I'm ok with IMing outside Gaia on places such as Skype, but I do not go on cam with people I only know for a day or even a week; if you have something to say PM/IM & we'll be starting from there. If I perceive that you might actually have interest in being friends, things like RL pictures naturally come in time.
I am OK with people who just add me without messaging first and depending on what it is about, how you've addressed yourself, what your grammar is like and the time that I see it, I will either choose to reply or not.
All I ask from anyone that approaches me for anything & am willing to give away straight out regardless of who you are or where you are from is RESPECT. I believe it's the "magical thing" that makes the world revolving around human relationships go round, & I have the habit of keeping it even in my long friendships. That doesn't strap away my humor & my the ability of being myself, but I believe it keeps relationships of any kind healthy.
I don't enjoy speaking to strangers about my BDSM relationship AS MEANS OF "CHIT CHAT". I do like to share certain aspects of it, like how we met, how we got into this, what's it like for me on an emotional or psychological level (relationship details are OK); but as far as the bedroom is concerned, you have a long list of fetishes on my profile. I think it's pretty obvious what I like to do. Asking me to verbalize that all over again feels like you just want a Domme to give you a boner so you can fap in front of the computer like the coward pig we all know that you are. razz
I am no expert, however I do not believe that the amount of years & experience necessarily make you GOOD or the BEST at Dominating. I also am not an adept/believer that doing it ALL & as HARD CORE as possible makes the Dom/me, Sub or any BDSM adept/fetishist good or even a decent practitioner.
What I personally believe makes you good? Simple: being yourself. Finding your balance, preference & most importantly, YOURSELF in BDSM. In my view, it is supposed to be something that you don't simply end up becoming, not just manifesting, but something that you actually enjoy & are, & that is what makes it have quality.
That being said, I have absolutely NO issue/problem with fetishists, kinksters, curious BDSM kittens, exhibitionists, straight non-BDSM folk just passing by asking questions & basically ANY person who chooses to practice BDSM in any other way that I do (or don't) or just learn more about it. DOES IT MAKE YOU HAPPY? If the answer is YES, then keep on doing it, & you are basically living my point in practice about its true quality. smile
Please always keep in mind that "knowledge" is an infinite process of accumulation, continuous evolution, & not a finite word that stops at some point in time. We learn all our lives & that's how it should be; if you think you know everything, I think you need to review your perspective of things.
I sort of loathe stupid uneducated people, especially if they are arrogant and rude while unable to speak proper English to me. I do not expect flawless perfection, I expect humility even from Dominants. I am a Domme, but I am a firm believer that being wise and well calculated beats having a big mouth.
Having said that, I also don't enjoy wasting my time without a purpose. If all you can do as means of conversation is "Hi. How are you?" and you are going to sell that to me repeatedly, daily, without any advancement and initiative at all from your behalf but the ability to answer questions, then don't be surprised if I will stop replying (or even block you, if you start spamming it).
I also enjoy anime. I've watched 100+ series (and this count was made a couple years ago, but I had to quit watching it frequently due to life). That's one very rich subject someone could approach me with and I could rant for a whole day, or wrestle a laborious chat about one particular anime that I love.
I was in medical school. The history behind was is quite long. I basically quit after a semester. Why? Well... Willingly. I decided the system wasn't to my liking at all (basically the professors, the courses etc.) - but just how it ran, not exactly the intensity level or the practice itself. And the outcome of all that effort... which would have amounted to nothing (the diploma of it was crap, residency programs sucked and were few, unrecognized well enough). Unless you've been at the particular University I have, you couldn't possibly know exactly what I'm talking about, so I'll leave it at that. I plan to go to dental medicine university this year (hopefully) and bilingual university if I don't manage to pass the exam.
Maybe another interesting fact would be that I went to a sports school for 8 years (volleyball)... and graduated top of my year in it on our national high school graduation exam!
Last, but not least... I am a very DIVERSE person! I don't know why, but I have a genuine and rather profound interest in A LOT of things. Sports (some watching, some playing), philosophy (of any kind - but this is a department I enjoy mostly "learning from others" wink
, books (mostly fantasy), games (just MMORPGs so far), movies (no horrors please!), electronics (I love computers; not just gaming on them! I've had one since 2nd grade - I'd like to know more about computer maintenance). I also am brilliant with languages, and I love to understand how systems work, I like solving puzzles.
I am considering learning Python someday and am currently in the process of learning Portuguese and Danish!