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I have not been on in quite a long time. For the most part I am back to stay, looking to RP and enjoy all the new features of the site. Message me if you have an interesting RP or ZOMG. There was some other game on here at one point with three factions but I am guessing it fell apart. Oh well.

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vader-lifer14

Report | 11/06/2013 2:27 pm

vader-lifer14

It's not a shot for shot remake. You can make your own character. I haven't gotten any canon profiles yet, but the RP starts relatively soon after everyone's locked in the game.

Here's the thread: http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/series-related-miscellaneous-role-play/sword-art-online-rp-u-c-accepting/t.88746521_recent/?_gaia_t_=4898&mygntcid=47601
vader-lifer14

Report | 11/06/2013 11:30 am

vader-lifer14

Thank you, random Gaia user. XP

Random question, but have you seen the anime Sword Art Online? I've started a roleplay of it in the forums, and I'm still looking for people, but I'd like one more person before we can start. If you or anyone you know is interested, check it out! smile
Gina_Kasumi

Report | 06/27/2013 10:03 pm

Gina_Kasumi

You know, i just re-read that whole rant by the dumb b***h before me... and I have one justification to make for self respecting, stubborn women. You're complements usually just throw us for a loop its so rare we don't expect it. So what if you made the whole question about you, if she thinks for a minute if a man doesn't think of himself as a priority, just as women think of themselves, then she's just a common idiot. Shes a ******** idiot for taking things waaaay to ******** seriously. ^_^
Gina_Kasumi

Report | 05/20/2012 9:51 am

Gina_Kasumi

Oh Pete, what sticky messes have you been getting into since I've left? Well, regardless I'm back.
haunting heaven

Report | 05/20/2012 8:30 am

haunting heaven

You want to know how to be less of a problem? Well, maybe you shouldn't phrase your attempts to "help" women as how you can make women "not be pissed" at you. YOU made it about yourself, doll. The issue stopped being about "how do I help women" and about "how do I help myself because their snark makes me uncomfortable." Perhaps if you had phrased it more like, "When I hold the door, some women become angry. Is there a way I can continue being polite--holding doors for both genders--without offending some women? Am I doing something wrong?" But you didn't. The whole post seemed to imply that you were kind of irritated that women would dare to take issue with your supposed act of kindness at all. You claimed their behavior was "unnecessary." But instead of assuming women who become angry have a problem, consider this: perhaps they've had bad experiences with men holding the door open for them before, and they're now legitimately wary. Instead of finding her behavior disrespectful, try to see it from her point of view.

Also, what is holding doors and giving compliments to women you don't know even about? Because it certainly has nothing to do with the actual struggles women have. You're not making things easier on women by complimenting a stranger or holding a door. Common courtesy doesn't make you a feminist champion, and this is one of the main issues I had with your post, the way you seem to think you're doing so much by simply being polite (assuming complimenting strangers is polite, which I still question).

I hold doors open for people--including men. It doesn't mean I'm making things easier on men or helping men. I'm simply being polite to an individual. That's it.
haunting heaven

Report | 05/19/2012 3:40 pm

haunting heaven

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I do best around the ladies to be a nice guy, give a girl a compliment when she looks extra nice even if I don't know her personally. You know the deal, if she looks lost/clueless, like she about to cry or whatever, ask if you can help. The only real problem I have is with I guess as stated in the OP is with the ("Feminazi"?)

Do you want brownie points for being a decent human being? This is the way in which you should behave with anyone (minus the weird complimenting of women you don't know--which is creepy), regardless of the sex of the person in question. The fact that you seem to think that helping a woman out is something that should be exclusively done for women (because women are weak, need to be protected, ********) is troubling.

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I just want to know how I go about being a nice person to woman, holding the door for them, trying to generally and sincerely nice to women without all the flak about how they can get the door for themselves and they dont need a man to help them do anything, so I should ******** off.

I highly doubt that the majority of your encounters with women whom you've held doors open for have reacted negatively. Unless you're being a creep about it and making it obvious you're holding the door because they're women. What's with this schtick about being a nice person to women all about? Shouldn't you be a nice person in general? Why single women out?

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Am I just a little confused and these woman went to the wrong rally/meeting, or are all of the feminists the same in this respect to men in public.

You haven't even bothered to give any details about the way you've supposedly been treated by women in public. Guess what--we can't read your mind.

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I feel like its ******** up, and most of the time, unnecessary. It's not like I am holding the door to cheack you out, and its funny because the girls who tell me off are never my type anyway.

Has it occurred to you that maybe it's NOT that they think you're checking them out? That maybe they find your attempts to be "chivalrous" CONDESCENDING?

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But then again so are most of the girls I compliment. Ill tell you, you have a beautiful smile or eyes if you do, wether your 400 lbs or anorexic, you might not be my cup of tea, but you look good and just maybe I helped make your day a little better, and made you hate men just a little less.

Are you aware at how condescending this is? Newsflash, kiddo: you're contributing to the problem. You're othering women and characterizing them as needy little children who need the Nice Guy to make them feel better.

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But seriously, how do i get women to stop being pissed at me for doing. (Chivalrous?) Gentlemenly, common courtesy/respect oriented things like holding doors.

STOP THINKING ABOUT IT IN PARADIGMS OF CHIVALRY, DUMBASS. Be a decent human being. Don't treat women differently than you treat men and think that by holding a door open for her you're respecting her. That's not respect, not as long as you think about in terms of being a Nice Guy for the poor, pathetic women of the world. Think about CHANGING YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR rather then asking how to "get women to stop" doing something. Maybe you should just STOP HOLDING DOORS if it's upsetting people. DID THAT NOT OCCUR TO YOU?
tubercular skies

Report | 05/15/2012 8:31 pm

tubercular skies

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Gina_Kasumi

Report | 12/28/2010 9:39 pm

Gina_Kasumi

see you around in the forums mate
pige_nicole3

Report | 07/01/2009 12:45 pm

pige_nicole3

Thanks for buying smile
Farewells

Report | 01/26/2009 2:02 pm

Farewells

say anything is obviously the best band ever. ;D

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