Relationship Status: Happily Taken
Orientation: Mostly Straight
Eye Color: Blue/Grey
Favorite Colors: Blue & Black
Timberwolf117: He has been with me through thick and thin. I made many mistakes along the way, but he forgave them. He accepts me as I am, whether he should or shouldn't. He is a true friend.
Devriess: He's been with me since practically day one of Gaia. He's the person I go to with my past, my present, and my future. I don't even want to remember the days before him.
Commander-Twiggy: He's been by my side through many hardships. We've had ups, and we've had our averages (but we've never had downs!) He and I are friends for life.
uMeowe My silly, quirky, awesome, funny friend. He's the one who can brighten my day, even when I'm so sure that hope has been lost. Without him, I'd be punching a lot of faces.
Plans for my Future Living: Own an RV. Station in places I love but never hesitate to travel to my heart's content. I love change.
On-going Volunteer Goals in Life: Find safe homes for abandoned/shelter animals.
Career Goals in Life: Become a psychologist, and/or run a no-kill animal shelter.
Hobby Goals in Life: Publish a book or get my art publicly recognized.
What I wish to see before I die: World Peace, even if it is only temporary.
What I want to Help Accomplish: Less hunting for sport. More forests saved. Less people starving in both my country and in others. Less of religion ruling politics. Legalize gay marriage. Legalize marijuana.
The Whole Story
Dear friends, and yes that goes for all of you..
You know me as Gray but you have the option of calling me Chelsea. I'm naturally a very friendly person who likes to "go with the flow" of life. I'm a pacifist and prefer calmly solving - or completely avoiding - violent conflicts.
When it comes to social life, I enjoy meeting new people - especially people who are willing to be their true self with me. In person, I tend to be incredibly shy.. but in time, I open up! Due to my reserved nature, I don't actually have many friends nearby - but I'm thankful for the friends I do have! <3
I really enjoy the outdoors when I'm in a safe environment, but when it comes to dangerous neighborhoods - or largely populated places in general - I can't help but want someone to accompany me. People find that I can come off as disinterested in them.. but in all truth and honesty, I'm enjoying the moment, as well as you - and if I'm not insulting you, that means I like you! I'm not the type of person to judge a book by its cover. Everyone needs a friend, and even the people you'd least expect kindness from, have a good side. All in all, I love having friends who can admit their flaws.. since I see them not as tainted parts of us, but as tokens of uniqueness.
When it comes to hobbies, I enjoy reading, writing, and drawing. I usually read novels that revolve around animals, while I personally write about wolf packs, magic and fantasy.. or depressing subjects. Drawing and writing has been an emotional escape for me since as long as I can remember, and without it, I don't know how I would've gotten through my childhood - not to mention adolescence!
I don't bring it up ever in casual conversation, but I am a semi-religious person. God does mean something to me, though I don't follow a certain religion. I'm a person who doesn't believe in pushing my ideas, beliefs, standards, or ideals on other people - so don't worry about that! We all choose to live our life our own way. Enough pain has struck the world due to scrutiny of another person's harmless lifestyle. I won't join that war.
Well, it's not hard to see that I'm a fairly subtle person.. I can be obnoxiously laid back; I can be very philosophical; I can discuss emotional concepts. I can laugh at the smallest of jokes, and smile at the simplest of things. I can be incredibly random, obnoxiously happy and ridiculously blonde. I can be incredibly smart, very sensitive, empathetic to others, insecure about myself, but amazingly proud of who I am and the past that I have laid out behind me. I am a human being with thoughts and feelings, just like the rest of you.
Send me a message, and I guarantee I'll respond. ^_^
Psych Boundary Type is: Thin boundaries.
Evidence suggests that thin boundary people are highly sensitive in a variety of ways and from an early age:
- React more strongly than do other individuals to sensory stimuli and can become agitated due to bright lights, loud sounds, particular aromas, tastes or textures.
- Respond more strongly to physical and emotional pain in themselves as well as in others.
- Become stressed or fatigued due to an overload of sensory or emotional input.
- Be more allergic and their immune systems are seemingly more reactive.
- Be more deeply affected -- or recall being more deeply affected -- by events during childhood.
In a nutshell, highly thin boundary people are like walking antennae, whose entire bodies and brains seem primed to notice what's going on in their environment and internalize it. The chronic illnesses they develop will reflect this "hyper" style of feeling.
Romantic attachment style: Intense and Preoccupied
"You have described yourself as preoccupied in your attachments. This suggests that you have more intense interpersonal relations than many people do, that in your romantic relations you sometimes feel really quite close, and at other times you feel almost estranged and cut-off. You probably have a hard time asserting yourself in a way that makes you feel you are really in control of your emotions. You may find that you often feel let down and as if you are giving much more than you get in your romances.
It's possible that your partners feel as if you don't really know who they are, even though you feel you are very intimate with them. You probably have a higher level of emotional arousal than most other people, both positive and negative, and this gets expressed in your romantic relationships. You may find it hard to be without a lover, and yet find that when you have a lover, the intensity puts a strain on the relationship.
Being preoccupied in romance is a matter of degree. A good lover thinks of the beloved often and holds the beloved in her or his thoughts. Mindfulness is a virtue and being mindful of one's lover is highly regarded and a tremendous asset in close relationships. But there's a difference between mindfulness and preoccupation."
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