hello, my name is hera, I am 28 years old, and I live in austin texas, I also live by my self in a 1 bedroom apartment. I like to write short stories, go to movies,hangout with friends, and play on the computer. Anyways, me and my gaia boyfriend Raven are no longer together as my Real mom caught me chatting with him and made us break up so I'm a lil bit sad about that. Oh and for all you boys who might be looking... I just got out of a relationship on here and am available so if any guy are interested you need only get to know me and we'll see where it all leads... i also have a best friend and mom whose name is GodLucy IV…hope everyone has a nice day!smilies/icon_smile.gif
Life is too prcious to worry about stupid stuff so have fun, go party & fall in love(like I did!) say what YOU want to say do what YOU want to do REGRET NOTHING & DONT let people who dont matter, bring you down!
the disease known as love....
love is a disease that spreads through the body as quickly as it came. it causes your heart to beat uncontrollably until it breaks and begins to SLOW.. on that last beat you realize it was death that caused your ultimate demise
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I dunno man... I'm pretty sure it's almost impossible for a non alimented human being to not make a judgement on or about an inference (provided it creates stimulus). That's why I believe we all make judgements about a persons character either consciously or unconsciously (so long as that person inferences provide a stimulus (i.e. our brain recognizes an action, sound, smell etc...)). Humans also tend to be more cautious when more is at stake. Considering everyone is judging one another (with the extent of that judgement varying of course) in the presence of a mere stimulus.... people would certainty judge those that they love (i.e. those who's stimulus is greater and more frequent).
Have you ever noticed that more intelligent animals treat different people differently? I'm not just talking about the animals reaction/judgement towards their owners vs outsiders (because then conditioning becomes more of a factor (which technically still makes it a judgement, just a biased or influenced one)) I'm talking about putting the animal in a room with random people.Ex. If you put a dog in a room with 6 different people (where none of those people move or express), the dog would take a liking or at least have a preference towards one of them (or perhaps none of them). Just about every living thing (if not every living thing) makes a judgement how much cognition if any at all is another story.
When it comes to love... there is soooooooooooooo much judgement being tossed around it's ridiculous. In fact because you love the person you feel more inclined to share your judgements with them (which to be honest, is part of the reason why loved ones often tend to fight). As far as I see it - if someone (somehow) isn't judging you (or is judging you less) then they probably don't care about you all that much (considering we tend to focus more on the things we care about). In order to make decisions we must judge, we must discriminate - it is a part of how we learn and grow. It's when we do silly things like add too much weight to the merit/reliability of our own personal experiences (which may result in narrow mindedness) that are troublesome.