Bolweevil :: READ ME FIRST!!
I'd appreciate it if you would read this before you PM me or comment. It may save both of us a lot of time.
Can I add you to my friends list?
You can try, but don't be insulted if I don't accept. As my friend Zrana mentions in her rant that I stole and placed in my profile, I'm picky about who actually makes it on my list. Only people I've talked to quite a bit and get along with will make it on my list. Brief encounters don't count (if I've posted in one of your threads once or twice). If I've never met you or talked to you on any social level, you won't be on my list.
If you have sent me a friend request, trust me, I've seen it, and I will deal with it when I am ready. Repeatedly sending requests will not make me want to be your friend any sooner. If anything it will make me deny you a lot faster. If you are told that you have already sent a request and you are asked if you want to resend it, say no or I will, OK?
You must be rich!
Appearances can be deceiving. I actually have very little gold. I only have items, which I have no desire to part with. And that brings us to our next line of questions.
Can I have a _____? or Can I trade you my _____ for your _____?
Sorry but NO. Even though the offer of donating to a complete stranger or selling an item at a huge loss would tempt some people, I'm very attached to all of my items. No amount of asking or pleading will convince me to give you something so please don't bother. Most importantly, asking me for a donation insures that you will never get one, I remember beggars and I avoid them when and if I'm feeling generous.
Dos and Don'ts
Don't comment on my profile to ask me a question or to reply to something I've said/done elsewhere.
If you have a question to ask me, or have some personal business with me (feedback on something I may have said/done), send me a PM. Any profile comments that fall within those categories will be deleted.
I will happily answer any questions, or discuss any issues you may have with me, but not on my profile.
Soap Box ( stolen from zrana )
If I don't know you--DON'T FRIEND ME!
Yeesh, random friend requests and THEN people go complaining when they become victims of chainletter "pass it on" PM schemes. BE MORE PICKY ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS! Have REAL friends and not just people you randomly chatted to one night for all of 5-10 minutes!