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Please mark/label your trades accordingly.
I am not a mind reader and will cancel unmarked trades.


Messages and profile comments are turned off due to rude behavior of others .


I do not accept random friend invites so you can message me over a vend item. Do not bother.


If I happen to buy something of yours at a misprice please just send me a trade for the amount that you made from it. I cannot do anything about that 2% but I am not one to prey on others and gloat about those who make simple mistakes. Just label the trade please! I understand what it is like to misprice things occasionally and have someone vulture it off of the market before I can fix it.


If you HAVE to get a hold of me PM BaconFayce. He is able to contact me at about any time.
For really quick decisions PM Bathamos. Do not harass or spam either of them. That just ticks me off.


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Registered: 08/14/2003

Gender: Female

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Slowbroking, II Clever Name II, Anela Vesir, R00Bunny, Lshmah, BaconFayce

Things you should read....

Close friends call me Coco or CC, Nela or Nellers.

I am Hawaiian, Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, German and Irish.


I don't like random friend requests and I usually ignore them.
I just like to get to know a person before I let them into my world.

I usually have private messages and profile comments for non-friends turned off though I usually answer quotes.
I'm sorry I just get overwhelmed by people easily. x.x ;;;;

I am extremely choosey about who I let close to me.
Getting burned does that to a person.

I am extremely shy and quiet if I don't know you.
But if I do know you I am a sassy, playful geek. xD;

I observe most people before I decide if I like them or not.
I pay attention to EVERYTHING. You might think I don't notice something but I pay mind to everything.

I love writing. I love role-play. I enjoy a good book.


I enjoy randomly gifting people.
I do keep track of people who say thank you.
Just because you can't PM or profile chat a person does not mean there is no way to contact them.

While a thank you is nice it is not really expected.
Kindness has no price.
Just enjoy it and hopefully pay it forward one day.

I.. am.. a rig wh0re and an art wh0re.
I love both and love every single aspect of receiving ,buying, opening them. x]


Reactive Attachment Disorder

Before you try to get close to me you need to know more about me.
RAD Is a big part of me and possibly always will be.

Reactive Attachment Disorder can be extremely crippling to a person who suffers from it.

What is Reactive Attachment Disorder in Adults

RAD is an acute psychiatric illness in which an individual experiences difficulty in forming loving, lasting, and intimate relationships. These people believe that they are capable of looking after themselves, providing for their own needs, and safety, without any help. Individuals with reactive attachment disorder fail to show empathy and genuine affection, because it makes them extremely uncomfortable to do so. However, RAD include both inhibited and dis-inhibited behavioral subtypes, wherein, the dis-inhibited subtype behavior, makes the individual demand attention and affection from familiar people as well as complete strangers. The inhibited subtype behavior, makes the individual cringe away from any form of human contact.

These individuals lack the ability to trust others wholeheartedly, and therefore do not allow anyone to control them or make them feel vulnerable to hurt. This disorder is believed to develop in an infant or child, when the primary caregiver, is not physically or emotionally present to provide the necessary love, security, nurturing, and safe environment to the child. Abuse of the child during his/her first 5 years, at the hands of the caregiver, foster care, orphanage, etc, is also attributed to the triggering of RAD.

RAD Continued....

If a child cannot develop a bond of love with the mother, the child will find it extremely difficult to develop meaningful relationships with any person throughout his/ her life. An individual with RAD does not think like a normal person and is more likely to remain detached from others, and experience feeling of abandonment.

Symptoms

Often, people with reactive attachment disorder complain of problems fitting in. For a long time, this disorder in children was never thought to be a major problem in adults. However, when children with RAD grew into adults, many issues such as relationship troubles, workplace issues, and problems with social life began to crop up.

RAD is an illness of extremes. While some individuals with RAD may even show hostility towards others, which prevents them from making strong, intimate relationships. Others, may live superficial lives, never being able to express their true emotions and secluding themselves from the company of others.

The symptoms of RAD are divided into two categories, avoidant attachment (inhibited) and ambivalent (dis-inhibited) attachment.

RAD Catergories

Avoidant Reactive Attachment Disorder Symptoms

The individual avoids intimacy.
Shows compulsive self-reliance.
Has difficulty in getting along with co-workers and often prefers working alone rather than begin a team player.
Fears closeness in relationships.
Lacks empathy.
Has very low levels of perceived support.
Tends to be overly critical of others.
Passive withdrawal.
Finds relationships as a threat to his/her sense of control and feels that the relation is not worth the effort.
Is very sensitive to blame.
Tends to become intensely self-critical
Does not believe in idealizing a romantic relationship.
Finds others untrustworthy or undependable.
Thinks of himself/herself as an unlovable person.
Avoids personal relationships by citing work reasons.
Is passive-aggressive.

Ambivalent Reactive Attachment Disorder Symptoms

Shows compulsive care-giving nature.
Desires excessive intimate contact and declarations of affection from his/her partner.
Can either feel over-involved and under-appreciated in his/her work or relationships.
Tends to idealize others.
Can be very jealous.
Experiences mood swings and extreme emotions.
Finds it hard to maintain a long-term relationship.
Tends to be emotionally overindulgent in a relationship.
Feels that others are very difficult to understand.
Finds his/her relationships imbalanced.
Can be possessive.
Tends to be exceedingly dependent on his/her relationships.
Finds a sense of security only when in a relationship.
Is very sensitive to any form of rejection.
Suffers from depression.
Can be suicidal.
Finds his/her partner unpredictable.
Feels unlovable or undesired by others.

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II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 12:09 pm
II Clever Name II
Well to bad, cause your getting gifts if you like it or not! heart
ill be sure to gift them to so they dont feel left out whee
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:57 am
II Clever Name II
be excited! 3nodding
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:55 am
II Clever Name II
i know, but i want to get you things now whee
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:51 am
II Clever Name II
I havent even been in his thread for awhile! i should have been checking it daily!
i wish my check cleared so i could start gifting you today crying
BUT when it does you shall get spoiled! heart heart
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:35 am
II Clever Name II
pfft! i can do as i please! you given me so much so now its my turn!
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:30 am
II Clever Name II
Well now your gunna be getting alot of gifts! heart heart
II Clever Name II Report | 08/17/2014 11:22 am
II Clever Name II
TTTTTTTTHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNKKKKKKK YYYYYYYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUU! heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart crying crying crying heart heart heart emotion_kirakira
Lake HyIia Report | 07/22/2014 9:07 pm
Lake HyIia
Take me w/ u on vacation crying
iiRinnai Report | 07/09/2014 7:40 pm
iiRinnai
id hope so :c
cause im like cc no love me no mo
he says hi too
iiRinnai Report | 07/09/2014 7:21 pm
iiRinnai
oh time for a new one eh.
same here. but I have to wait til next month
ahh me and simon are conversing atm
I miss talking to you though
 
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