My name is Sharee.
I am 27 and I live in New Zealand.
I have bad health, i spend a few weeks to a months worth of time in the hospital each year and in the last 12 months I have almost lost my life twice
Due to my health, I do not work or study and have crippling depression. I however do my best to keep my head above water and stick around for my loved ones. Though as people who have had mental illness know, it's not easy and sometimes you fall.
ALL sad stuff aside, I am generally cheerful, kind, supportive and generous. I do my best to convey my feelings to the people I care for. I can be a bit anti social sometimes BUT when the chips are down, I will always have their back. Always.
I Love Gaia and the people here, feel free to talk to me if you see me around. ESPECIALLY if you want to talk about cats.
Must be a real winner for his gf to kick him out then. Wonder if he smashed up her things too. I wouldn't blame her for booting his a** out. I think your mum feels sorry for him thinking he has nowhere to go but I never understood why mothers do this for undeserving children.
Matt has a cousin in his mid 20s who is totally undeserving & disrespectful to his grandparents who let him live in their home rent-free. His cousin's parents aren't concerned about where he had to go, so he moved downstairs into his grandparent's house. My in-laws also live in that house, but it is divided into two units. My mother in-law keeps her sewing workshop downstairs, people do their laundry down there, plus his grandparents go down there to let the dogs out into the backyard.. His cousin brings girls over & they are fully nude in his bed, which my in-laws have had the awkward accident of discovering. The guy smokes indoors, when nobody else in the house smokes at all. He spends his money on tattoos, video games, booze & stupid s**t, but he lives there rent-free. Like, if somebody is doing you a favor & giving you a free place to live, the least you could do is be respectful, keep it clean, pitch in & help around the house, attempt to save money to go out on your own, ect... But his grandmother says "She feels sorry for the poor kid because he has nowhere else to go." My in-laws are sick of his s**t but they can't say or do anything about it because Matt's grandparents own the house. They just rent the unit next door & have done so for around 20 years I'd say.