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Questions about nudism - All of us have them but many don't ask them. Today, it appears that asking questions has been identified as a social faux pas, particularly if we're asking a question of someone about a location in which they are different from ourselves.

Perhaps I should get an improved filter for my mouth, but I tend to ask the questions as they come to my brain. For me, there are not any good or poor questions or body parts, there are merely respectful or disrespectful questions, notably in regards to nudism!

Last summer, I seen a guy at my nudist camp who had many, many p***s rings. This intrigued me: I've never met someone who had at least 50 rings in his p***s before. Keeping the questions in simply wasn't going to occur, so I approached the man and noticed the p***s rings and asked if he would mind a few questions about them since I Had never seen so many on one individual.

With his permission, the questions started: didn't it hurt to get all those piercings? How in the world does he put clothing on? Does the jingling of the jewelry under his garments cause people to look at him funny? Is he able to get through the airport security scan? Does Knickers! I sat there naked for a min. or two afterward interfere with sex? And the list went on.

The gentleman had a great sense of humor and answered each question thoroughly so that something that entirely baffled me made sense afterwards. Questions do that: you ask them, get them replied, and understand them.

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While questions regularly clear things up and help us to invent questions, someplace in society we have been instructed that asking questions is rude, a way of mocking others, and just plain disrespectful (especially in regards to naturismor naturism questions). as soon as I requested my niece one day about a mark on her face- which I presumed was due to an injury- her mother prompted her to tell me that it's not fine to make fun of her birthmark.

Honestly, I was not making fun- I was asking what the symbol was. I had lots of teasing as a kid because of my right eye being a lazy eye. While initially hurt by folks remarking (kids can be cruel in the way they say things) I learned to explain my eye when folks asked about it or joke together when they asked questions in a funny way. This helps to prepare others and allows the air to be cleared.




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Yet so many questions are no no's. We can not ask others about some sensitive issues and I truly believe that is why there's so much hate and prejudice in the world: we mock what we do not understand and we don't understand things that we don't ask about. I do ask many questions but keep it to things I believe I can get away with. Some of my more unusual questions have been:

* Isn't it annoying to have a p***s hanging down your leg all day? (I asked this of a man- I can't envision having a d**k there to irritate me all day.)

* Did you like it better to have hair or do you more value the convenience of being hairless?

* What was it like to realize that you had been homosexual? What was the reaction of your loved ones?

Then there are the questions that Body Image Site Titled: Unattainable Beauty Had like to inquire, but don't inquire due to lack of confidence that the questions will be well-received due to the way questions could be perceived:

* What could it be like to be Black? What prejudices and stereotypes affect you as a result of your skin color?

* When folks look at your amputation/ mastectomy scar, what goes through the mind? Are you alright with questions about that?

So what about you, beloved readers? Do you ask questions? Are there limits from what you will ask? How can you feel when questions are asked of you that may be sensitive? Are questions simply a manner of making fun of people or can they be used to raise the love these days? Because, as we FKK'ers know it's about the love.

* make sure you visit Naturist Portal often to remain up to date on news that questions and thoughts that shift you!

ThisNudist Blog By Melissa which talks about questions about nudims was released by - Young Naturists & Young Naturists America

Class: Naturism and Naturism

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36 year old naturist from Catskill, NY. Love life, hiking, climbing trees, writing, and helping folks. Been a naturist since the age of 28 and discovered it to be a life changing manner of living.