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A wedding is a momentous occasion for a new couple and their families. Many people think that lots of money needs to be spent to make the day memorable and classy, but this is not the case. You can have an amazing wedding without breaking your budget. All it takes is a little inspiration, a few ingenious measures, and the ability to do so without sending yourself to the poorhouse.

Make sure that at your wedding, there are enough refreshments for all of your guests. During the night, there will be a lot of dancing and conversing, which can lead to dehydration. Prepare accordingly by having a lot of quality water and soda in many different locations at your wedding.

If your wedding reception is beginning to look more like a child's birthday party, have all the children gathered up and taken to their own area to enjoy some suitable entertainment. A clown or magician can keep their eyes locked on him while you and their parents dance the night away.

Weddings are stressful. That is for sure. Whether it is big or small, there will be things that go wrong. Having a friend of confidant other than your soon-to-be spouse, will help you make it through the process. Having a friend who is on your side and who doesn't throw their opinion in on what color the dresses should be, is a brides essential.

If you're on a tight budget for your wedding, ask your family if they can help supply the flatware and plates for the tables at your reception. You can match only the items on a single table as most people won't be looking at what is on the other tables around them. Most people won't even notice! The best part is that you can send the dirty dishes home with them for cleaning, saving you additional cost for the extra time at your venue.

If you're really worried about guests at your wedding drinking too much, you can only offer a cash bar. When people are forced to pay for their alcohol, they're less likely to drink as much. You could also make the bar cash-only, forcing people to go to an ATM if they run out of money which, when your drunk, isn't easy.

The worst thing that can come out of a wedding is a huge debt. Don't overlook your budget when choosing items for your big day. If you are cash-strapped, look for savings like having your family cater the event or do all the photography. At worst you can ask for cash in lieu of gifts to help offset the costs.

If you can afford it, try to take some dance lessons before the wedding. Things can get really hectic right before the event and it is nice to have a little time set aside where you can do something together. Plus, the dance lessons well help you feel more comfortable on your wedding day.

Between your ceremony and your reception there can be a long down-time for your guests. If they can't be seated at their tables right away, choose a venue that has a bar or lounge available for them to hang out in while they wait for the guests of honor to arrive.

Health-conscious lovebirds can opt for gluten-free wedding cakes, appetizers, and refreshments. Instead of sweets loaded with wheat, many bakeries now offer options that are entirely free of gluten. These cakes, cookies, and edible favors include ingredients like potato flour, which can be used to bake delicious, light, and healthy treats that can be enjoyed by everyone.

You should do your best to help your guests get to your wedding. Even if they are paying for the trip themselves, you can have transportation waiting for them at the airport and pay for their accommodations. Make sure they have a pleasant traveling experience and will enjoy the wedding.

If you like the venues offered in Vegas, then go right ahead and get married there. However, if you're hoping for something a little more special or traditional, then the suggestions you've just read should help you put together the wedding of your dreams. Hopefully, you'll be able to look back on you wedding, proudly, forever.