By:
Matt Fuller
Online dating is an exceptional way to meet new people from within your home town or from all corners of the globe. Dating online is arguably the hottest and most popular way to get matched based on compatibility and similar interests. If you've just signed up to a dating site and you're looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, then it's wise to learn how to spot a player.
Let's take a look at how to protect yourself from heartache whilst dating on the World Wide Web.
Start with determining how long your new friend has been a member of the dating site where you first met. If they have been an active member for a year or so, it doesn't necessarily mean he or she is playing you - although it does raise the question as to "why". So just be careful you're not being played and you're not just another notch on their belt.
If you come across someone online who requires you to answer too many questions about personal subjects, then think up something fictitious about your emotions or a bad relationship experience. If they answer with emotions similar to yours just be careful he or she is not just using empathy to earn your trust and prey on your vulnerabilities.
Take a look at how many times their profile has been viewed. If the number is much higher than the other member profiles think twice about responding to messages they send you. If his or her profile has had a high number of hits this often indicates they have been sending out bulk/spam messages to members and is a sign they are not interested in a long term relationship.
Copy and paste their profile description into Google and see if their profile shows up on other dating sites. It's common for players to join multiple sites including free dating sites and paid dating sites.
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An honest guy or girl who is searching for a genuine relationship will share their prospective life plans, without the need to compromise. If someone comes across a bit too perfect, and to coin a phrase - "it's probably too good to be true". Players design their moves cautiously so they seldom make slip ups, they are uneager to talk about actual emerging life plans, never talk about their family or friends, will never show a need to compromise and will never go against any decisions you make in order to keep you believing he's a great guy.
Online dating is a fun and interesting way to find your match. Although do take measures to avoid heartache at the hands of a player. Steele yourself against the potential pitfalls along the way and hopefully your good experiences will out weigh the bad one's.
About the Author:
Matt Fuller provides articles and news items for various online publications and free online dating websites. Visit Matt's dating sites Sydney for tips on online dating services.
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