I don't get society anymore. It teaches the girls to "level" the playing field, with the boys. To dress older and way well to be honest... like cheap hookers, but that's so "in". Then the rise in teenage pregnancy surprises parents. Um yea, not me. Short clothing that obviously will lead to trouble.
The society I've seen in my local area, the girls and boys of the "new" generation have to faith, no trust in each other. They have major trust issues and are really materialistic now because of reality tv and all the fads it seems. For example girl dates boy, girl grows tired of boy, instead of ending the relationship she sees another boy. Then other boy finds out then girl ends relationship when confronted with truth, cant have two boys. This causes self esteem issues for the first boy.
This in turn has caused issues with a ton of guys in the dating world in my area. I mainly have male friends because all the women I grew up with were catty, backstabbing con artists, so by default I've grown up being leery of women. Been screwed over more than once BECAUSE MOST WOMEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO BE FRIENDS. A compliment is half the time is a hidden insult. Especially where I work. And where I work politeness and just being nice is viewed as flirting and leads to issues like stalkers.
Many of my male friends are awesome guys who should have nice girls, but because of their pasts they are attracted to the mentally unstable ones! I thank god everyday for my boyfriend, who is a genuinely cares for me. Like me, has issues. His ex-wife left, and a few girlfriends have too, all because he bored them. He's mentioned a few times, I would eventually get bored and leave like the rest. I don't plan on it, I adore him and his two sons. He made a comment if another guy touches me, he'd kill them. Which I don't blame him, he's been cheated on enough, and I never will.
· Sat Mar 08, 2014 @ 09:08am · 0 Comments