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Dealing With Bullies & Apoligizing
Hello everyone. I know, I suck at staying on time but hey I have a life. Recently a lot of my friends have asked me about bullies. I know a lot of people just say to tell someone, or ignore them, but me and you both know that is impossible sometimes. A bully literally doesn't care if he gets a reaction usually, a bully's true intention is to just make your life hell. They know it works because of instinct, it's literally a thing they just know, a reaction just feeds it even more. Now then my way of dealing with bully's was to stand up to them, I literally beat the s**t out of him, but this is not the best approach obviously especially if you aren't very strong. What I recommend is trying to hang out with a group of friends, so that the bully can't focus on you without being verbally attacked back by your friends, this will discourage them easily from my experience. The next option is to tell someone at your school, I know this is corny as hell but it's true, if the bully gets suspended he knows not to mess with you because he will get in trouble at home and at school even more. It is a domino effect sort of. If all else fails, you have to keep trying to get the bully in trouble. It works in the long run, and if you are threatened, this gets serious you have to tell if you don't want it to happen. Unlike me I was threatened and I nearly put someone in a hospital, given I am 6' 7" and I am not very weak, I just get made fun of because of me walking on my toes sometimes and I got sick of it. Sometimes drastic measures come but you have to avoid them as much as possible. All right guys that is it for today and I hope you have a wonderful day! emotion_smilies/icon_C8.png

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