Where did my life go? Just a few months ago I was very happy having a few close friends and several casual friends, and now I never see anyone except my boyfriend. My best friend decided to stop including me in group hang-outs for reasons completely unknown to me. I've tried to talk to her nicely about it and ask to be included, and got no help. When she's been mean to me I stood up for myself and of course was spurned. I don't know what the hell happened.
I can't think of anything that I did to cause this, and if she'd let me, I'd love to try to talk things out with her. I'll be honest and true to myself and control what I say so that I don't get angry or mean, even though I want to be.
I'm willing to swallow my pride in order to get my friends back. I have to be. I've never felt lonelier in my entire life, and that is not an exaggeration. The only one left for me is my boyfriend, who is extremely loving and supportive of me. He's talked to my friend to tell her that I'm falling apart because of my lack of human contact, but she just said I'm "too dramatic" and that's why she won't include me in anything anymore. I'm completely shocked. Too dramatic? I guess I came off as being too desperate when I've asked to be included. Which is hard not to do when you cry every day because nobody will hang out with you except for your boyfriend, and he's usually busy working most of the day.
I kind of wonder if I even should try to be her friend again. She's changed. She used to have a lovely personality and be really nice, but now she's really cliquey and uses harsh judgements and harsh words to people. Some of the old her is still there, and I wish she'd go back to the caring and understanding person she was.
At minimum, I'd like to be casual friends. But it would be really cool to have my best friend back, too.
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