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My journal doesn't really serve any one purpose. Its just there for me to write. Whether it be about my daily life, asking for advice, or some of my stories. Its nothing fancy, nothing specific, and nothing in general.
Advice Anyone?
Hey Everybody,

I have a random question for any viewers who might be reading. Would you cut contact with someone who was causing you emotional pain? Even if you had a previous friendship. One of my Gaian daughters is stuck in this situation, and though I keep telling her its best she moves on, she insists that its best she stay. What do you think?

Dipsey Lynn


P.S.

Yes I did request her permission before stating this in my journal. She actually wants outside opinions.






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Lydia_Tallis
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commentCommented on: Tue Sep 25, 2012 @ 01:45am
That really all depends. Why is this old friend causing problems? Is he or she upset? Did they try talking it out? I'm sure whatever it is could be fixed with a little understanding. Friends shouldn't just give up on each other. A good friendship is worth fighting for.


commentCommented on: Tue Sep 25, 2012 @ 02:01am
Well, what happened was that she use to also date this friend. Only then she had to move away, and they didn't want to try a long distance relationship. Things were okay until she started dating this new guy that her friend doesn't like for reasons I am unsure of. So now he keeps posting mean things to her on Facebook, and its hurting her feelings pretty badly. She's tried talking to him, but he isn't interested.



Dipsey Lynn
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nanired13
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commentCommented on: Thu Sep 27, 2012 @ 04:33am
I would cut contact with that person. I am sorry, but I had to deal with that with a few people and after a while I had enough. So, go for it! cut contact!


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