So I was talking with a friend last night, and we both have had the same types of relationships. To be short, some may call them "charity cases." But to me that's not what it is. It's against my moral to see anyone scared of love who has made it clear that they want to love someone.
For years and years I chased after James. He was sweet, but never loved me the same way that I loved him. At most for a short period of time, he liked me a lot. James finally went away to school on the eastern coast and I stayed on the western coast. The possibility of a relationship is close to nada.
In this conversation with my girl-friend, she asked, "How can you be engaged to someone when, when they know that you still love someone else?" I had to pause for a bit and replied, "it's because he never chased after me. I still love James, but the person I want to be with for the rest of life has to chase me as much as I want to chase them." She replied, "I know the feeling."
So in conclusion, I believe that there are several people you can love, just on different levels and different types of relationships. Anyone with me on this thought?
Sailor Blue Rose Community Member 
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