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Have you ever noticed, that when you post a negative status on your Gaia, everyone freaks out and thinks it's about them? The whole world does not revolve around each and everyone of you guys. I could've just been in a bad mood that day and felt like being negative. You don't have to be all paranoid and worried that I'm saying things about you incognito for the whole world to judge.

I am not like that.

If I had a hard day and it's all your fault, then yeah, I may say something in my status but I will never specifically say a person's name UNLESS I lose it and what you did really, really pissed me off. But unless I directly PM you and tell you that I'm mad at you or you really know for a fact that I'm mad because of you, don't freak out about it. I'm tired of everyone consistently PMing asking me if something they did that day pissed me off.

"Well no, but now I'm annoyed with you for thinking I would be so rude as to say underhanded things to you for the whole world to see. NOW I'm pissed off at you, you judgemental jerk!"

I also hate it when the person I AM mad at PMs me and asks me, "What's wrong?" IT'S YOU, YOU IDIOT! I make it obvious when I'm mad at a person so that they have the common sense to stay away or at least apologize and beg for forgiveness.

Another thing that irks me: the sympathetic Gaians. They say, "Oh, I understand where you're coming from." "Oh, I totally get you." "Oh, I'm so sorry." It makes me feel like I'm a 2 year old who just had their first hamster die when they pat me on the back and all bleat "It's going to be alright."

You are not me. Only I know how I feel. You are not physic so don't make prophetic announcements about my feelings in the future. Don't compare me to you because I am my own unique person. I understand that you want to cheer me up, but being all sympathetic and pitying just makes me feel stupid. If you really want to cheer me up, do something that'll take my mind off my problems, not consistently remind me that I have a problem and that you "know how it feels". If you know how it feels, you know that it's not a good feeling so take my mind off of it!

I don't expect to be agreed with and I don't need people agreeing with my views just to justify my opinions. This is me. Deal with it.