Don't worry, nothing too grim about what I write about, I assure you. I'm "Grim", but you can refer to me as anything you'd like - I'm not really too picky unless the nickname is either stupid, or offensive.
"If you demand the same rights as your neighbor, do not make a spectacle of yourself by calling for higher ranks. Equality is not putting yourself above someone who has caused you pain, but rather, being allowed to sit beside him and treated the way he is. Do not put yourself in the position you so previously hated, for you in turn will become hated."