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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:05 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:13 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY I guess, technically, in AUs and the meta, he already has, if that's the way you're looking at it. But you have to remember that Julian is a person, not a thing. It's not like Capture of the Flag or something, where somebody can run into your base and just take him away.. You even watch ANY of what's happenin' to him anywhere? Its exactly like a game of capture the flag.
Yeah, but that isn't how it's supposed to be.
If Julian chooses to be with somebody else, that's.. pretty much the end of it. Because after that point, if you tried to treat him like he was yours it'd just make him feel.. Well. The way he's going to feel a lot after what Hale's group does to him.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:15 pm
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nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY I guess, technically, in AUs and the meta, he already has, if that's the way you're looking at it. But you have to remember that Julian is a person, not a thing. It's not like Capture of the Flag or something, where somebody can run into your base and just take him away.. You even watch ANY of what's happenin' to him anywhere? Its exactly like a game of capture the flag. Yeah, but that isn't how it's supposed to be. If Julian chooses to be with somebody else, that's.. pretty much the end of it. Because after that point, if you tried to treat him like he was yours it'd just make him feel.. Well. The way he's going to feel a lot after what Hale's group does to him. Don't you ******** compare me to Hale.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:19 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY I guess, technically, in AUs and the meta, he already has, if that's the way you're looking at it. But you have to remember that Julian is a person, not a thing. It's not like Capture of the Flag or something, where somebody can run into your base and just take him away.. You even watch ANY of what's happenin' to him anywhere? Its exactly like a game of capture the flag. Yeah, but that isn't how it's supposed to be. If Julian chooses to be with somebody else, that's.. pretty much the end of it. Because after that point, if you tried to treat him like he was yours it'd just make him feel.. Well. The way he's going to feel a lot after what Hale's group does to him. Don't you ******** compare me to Hale.
Odin, I'm not saying that you'd do something like that. But I am saying.. that even if Julian pursues a relationship, he's always going to feel a conflicted attachment to you, and that might make him feel like he was being unfaithful to whoever he wound up with, if you tried to reassert yourself in his life after that point. It's bad enough that he'd be working uphill to even form a relationship with anyone else, because even if he got past the Hale thing, unless you'd just completely run the kid off he'd feel like he was being unfaithful to you by entertaining the idea of a romantic attachment.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:28 pm
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nowSERENITY Odin, I'm not saying that you'd do something like that. But I am saying.. that even if Julian pursues a relationship, he's always going to feel a conflicted attachment to you, and that might make him feel like he was being unfaithful to whoever he wound up with, if you tried to reassert yourself in his life after that point. It's bad enough that he'd be working uphill to even form a relationship with anyone else, because even if he got past the Hale thing, unless you'd just completely run the kid off he'd feel like he was being unfaithful to you by entertaining the idea of a romantic attachment. That's cause he knows he's mine.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:31 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY Odin, I'm not saying that you'd do something like that. But I am saying.. that even if Julian pursues a relationship, he's always going to feel a conflicted attachment to you, and that might make him feel like he was being unfaithful to whoever he wound up with, if you tried to reassert yourself in his life after that point. It's bad enough that he'd be working uphill to even form a relationship with anyone else, because even if he got past the Hale thing, unless you'd just completely run the kid off he'd feel like he was being unfaithful to you by entertaining the idea of a romantic attachment. That's cause he knows he's mine.
[ Pinching the bridge of her nose. ]
I mean, in a sense, yeah, you could call it that.
But he's a person, Odin. What happens if he wants to be a person, and not immediately obey you, or if he doesn't take your side because he thinks you're wrong?
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:33 pm
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nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY Odin, I'm not saying that you'd do something like that. But I am saying.. that even if Julian pursues a relationship, he's always going to feel a conflicted attachment to you, and that might make him feel like he was being unfaithful to whoever he wound up with, if you tried to reassert yourself in his life after that point. It's bad enough that he'd be working uphill to even form a relationship with anyone else, because even if he got past the Hale thing, unless you'd just completely run the kid off he'd feel like he was being unfaithful to you by entertaining the idea of a romantic attachment. That's cause he knows he's mine. [ Pinching the bridge of her nose. ] I mean, in a sense, yeah, you could call it that. But he's a person, Odin. What happens if he wants to be a person, and not immediately obey you, or if he doesn't take your side because he thinks you're wrong? Wrong about what?
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:34 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY Odin, I'm not saying that you'd do something like that. But I am saying.. that even if Julian pursues a relationship, he's always going to feel a conflicted attachment to you, and that might make him feel like he was being unfaithful to whoever he wound up with, if you tried to reassert yourself in his life after that point. It's bad enough that he'd be working uphill to even form a relationship with anyone else, because even if he got past the Hale thing, unless you'd just completely run the kid off he'd feel like he was being unfaithful to you by entertaining the idea of a romantic attachment. That's cause he knows he's mine. [ Pinching the bridge of her nose. ] I mean, in a sense, yeah, you could call it that. But he's a person, Odin. What happens if he wants to be a person, and not immediately obey you, or if he doesn't take your side because he thinks you're wrong? Wrong about what?
I don't know, dude. It's a ******** hypothetical. Differences of opinion happen, differences in ideology. Every couple gets to that point eventually.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:39 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:41 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY I don't know, dude. It's a ******** hypothetical. Differences of opinion happen, differences in ideology. Every couple gets to that point eventually. It ain't a hypothetical. I ain't wrong about anything. He won't disagree with anything I say.
Patently impossible. Everybody is wrong about something, sometime.
And even if you're not wrong, he might disagree. That's part of being a person, with feelings and thoughts of his own.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:49 pm
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nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY I don't know, dude. It's a ******** hypothetical. Differences of opinion happen, differences in ideology. Every couple gets to that point eventually. It ain't a hypothetical. I ain't wrong about anything. He won't disagree with anything I say. Patently impossible. Everybody is wrong about something, sometime. And even if you're not wrong, he might disagree. That's part of being a person, with feelings and thoughts of his own. No it ain't. I know what's best for him.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 7:50 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY Lyrca nowSERENITY I don't know, dude. It's a ******** hypothetical. Differences of opinion happen, differences in ideology. Every couple gets to that point eventually. It ain't a hypothetical. I ain't wrong about anything. He won't disagree with anything I say. Patently impossible. Everybody is wrong about something, sometime. And even if you're not wrong, he might disagree. That's part of being a person, with feelings and thoughts of his own. No it ain't. I know what's best for him.
Odin.. I've said that before myself, okay?
It doesn't go as well as you'd think..
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:12 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:16 pm
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Lyrca nowSERENITY Odin.. I've said that before myself, okay? It doesn't go as well as you'd think.. You don't know what's best. You don't know anything goin' on in our world.
[ Rolling her eyes. ]
I wasn't talking about Julian.
I was talking about in general.
It's hard to know what's best for a person if, in reality, you barely know anything about them. And then, even if you do know what they need, if it doesn't match up with what they want then they start to resent you, defy you. You fight, and suddenly it's that they don't want you to take care of them anymore, even though before that was the only thing that made them feel safe..
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:24 pm
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nowSERENITY [ Rolling her eyes. ] I wasn't talking about Julian. I was talking about in general. It's hard to know what's best for a person if, in reality, you barely know anything about them. And then, even if you do know what they need, if it doesn't match up with what they want then they start to resent you, defy you. You fight, and suddenly it's that they don't want you to take care of them anymore, even though before that was the only thing that made them feel safe.. Tch.
I ain't living your life. Nothing's gonna play out like yours.
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