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Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:27 pm
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My v****a. is...hideously scarred and permanently damaged at this point. I have raised keloid scarring, permanent 'tears' in the tissue, permanent indentations, notches missing along the c**t
Half the time, when I piss and I go to wipe, I tear myself open.
I swear to ******** god I hate being a ******** woman. I hate my genitals. I hate my tits. I hate their biological function. I hate their appearance. I hate them so ******** much.
I have a gyno appointment on Friday. Every ******** time she comments on how badly damaged it is, and it's worse than it's been in years. I am terrified of what she's going to say. All she ever does is give me a generic diagnosis (puritis of the vulva, or basically, 'itchy p***y') and steroid ointment which actually works wonders, but it's a temporary prescription. Once the prescription runs out, the problems start again.
The keloids itch like a mother ********. Constantly. I scratch them in my sleep and rip myself open. I get ripped open when I have sex or masturbate wrong or wipe myself wrong while pissing.
I ******** hate my body
I mean it was a worthless sack of disgusting horseshit for years anyway, but at least the one part of me that men cared about worked. now that doesn't even function properly.
my entire body is revolting. Looking at myself nude repulses me. I actually genuinely feel sorry for Brandon because he loves me. He says I love you and I love him back so ******** much, but all I can think is, "oh god, you poor, poor man. I am so sorry."
I love him so much, and he has been nothing but good to me, but i am nothing but a piece of s**t that will drag him down and ruin him
fat is worthless jaime is worthless I am disgusting everything about me is sickening
I have to turn down sex with brandon constantly because 'I have a tear' or 'it hurts right ******** ******** ******** ********. I am finally with someone I WANT TO DO THINGS WITH AND I ******** CAN'T
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Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 9:17 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 9:38 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 9:59 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2013 4:47 am
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I don't get it either. We used protection too. It was about a month later that it just started itching for no reason. I probably tried to treat it as a yeast infection about once a month, but that too only temporarily helped. Three days or so after the treatment ended, it'd be back to itching again.
Brandon has literally helped me so much. I don't self harm anymore, which is big because I'm not a cutter, I'm a hitter and my target is always my head, whether it be punching myself anywhere that my hair can hide the bruises, or slamming my head into doors, door frames and walls.
I've full on knuckle punched myself so hard that I've dazed myself, and I've also knocked myself so hard that my jaw is kinda ******** up now and clicks when I open and shut it.
I don't get fly off the handle, blind rage angry anymore. He hugs me when I cry. He helps me control my anger when I start feeling blind rage, which is actually when I hit myself the most, not when I am sad.
He actually seemed pretty sad when I said that to him for the first time, and tells me often that I am the best thing that ever happened to him.
I'm also back to a regular workout schedule during my lunch hour at work. It's not every day, but I've also been enjoying having a day in between to veg out at lunch or go for a walk outside in the sun, or running an errand. Going to try and bump it up permanently to 4 days a week and use Tuesdays as my errand/vegout days.
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Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2013 5:02 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2013 5:14 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 6:29 am
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Wow, so I feel dumb.
Went to the giney doctor on Friday, as scheduled. I got there and informed her of the ongoing issues. Told her damage has gotten worse, and said 'don't be shocked.'
She looked baffled and asked why I wasn't using anything for it. I told her my prescription ran out and I hadn't had a chance to come in and reup
"No, you still have refills here. We need to clear this up for you, we can't have you in pain like this. I'm also adding more refills for you. You should pick it up before you leave."
Holy...I still had refills. I thought the last time I checked they ran out and the system (you can order prescriptions and refill requests online through my insurance.) Said NO.
I could have been pain free this whole time.
She added 30 refills to it as well and we chatted about how my IUD was working and my relationship, which she thought was cute that we survived long distance and were now living together.
crying heart
One of the big reasons that I chose her as my GYN is because she performed my mother's hysterectomy in 2002.
The damage has been done, but the itching is already gone, the scarring is softened and will turn from white to pink again soon. Also, TMI , but the newer scarring will also 'peel' and expose newer healthier skin underneath. This is what happened last time at least.
Also, Brandon has been a ******** saint to me about this. I know he can be pretty gruff with people and sorta...offputting at times due to his bluntness and being rather quiet in groups. But he has been nothing but supportive, and nonjudgmental. When I cry he hugs me and says he loves me.
I am always terrified of him going downtown because of the appearance and as such, shy away from sex even when I want it. He has never mentioned the appearance to me and still loves me.
Holy s**t. I deserve that, don't I? Jesus I am going to cry.
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Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 12:24 am
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 6:51 am
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 11:29 am
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 1:32 pm
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Posted: Sat May 04, 2013 5:03 pm
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 5:10 am
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 2:39 pm
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