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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 2:47 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:20 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:47 pm
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The topic is here, by the way, in case anyone was interested: Extended Discussion | Birth Control Sabotage
I can kind of see their point but when they say or suggest that being forced to pay child support is like being forced to give birth to a child all of my sympathy for them goes out the window. No. Your wallet isn't the same as her body.
And the whole "she's having a kid just to make me pay child support" thing is bullshit. It's kind of like "but I don't think women should use abortion as birth control". Women aren't that stupid. I'm sure a few idiots have done it, yeah, but it's not some vast female conspiracy that happens all the time.
I can see how I would be pissed if I had to pay for a child I didn't want. But like you said, it's not supposed to be a punishment. It's so that the woman will be able to take care of the child. There should be a better system than that, I agree, but I'm sick of men acting like it's some way of antagonizing or oppressing them.
What I really can't stand in that thread, though, is the assertion that impregnating yourself by lying or messing with birth control is the same as impregnating someone else with it. But for some reason, I can't get that through some people's heads. Someone using your sperm without your permission is not. as. ********. bad. as someone altering your body without your permission. It's horrible, but you're not being physically violated.
It makes my blood boil. gonk
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 7:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:07 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 12:10 am
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Munkers I actually have replies waiting for me in the thread that I haven't had the heart to go read yet because a certain someone keeps wanting to jump up and down about how everyone is doing it wrong and doesn't understand anything about the law or legal proceedings, but he sure as s**t isn't doing much to clear up the "confusion." *headdesk* Hey, that's the same someone who tried to tell me that impregnating yourself (sans sperm-producer's permission) is the same crime as impregnating someone else!
Yeah... that's why I haven't posted or even looked at the thread for a couple days now. rofl You're not alone.
Jaaten Syric I've given up trying with most of the idiots I've encountered. It's one of the reasons why I haven't posted in your thread, I no longer have the patience to tell idiots that the cost of child support is not ******** equivalent to pregnancy and child-rearing (The price of child support for a man making the median income for my state is roughly 7.00 per day, the last time I made that point I was mocked for my phrasing but oddly, none of the anti-abortion crowd thought it worth addressing directly).
Ooh. Can you source that? I feel like it might come in handy.
Quote: I can't say this line of argument pisses me off as much as it does you lot but every time I see it made it does make me want to punch my gender, collectively, in the neck; Sorry, but as the ladies have said, there is a massive, yawning chasm between your pocketbook and her body. Shut the ******** up and deal. If you want to advance causes like 'financial abortions' I'm completely okay with that but arguing that men are equally affected by abortion is insulting and worthy of intense derision. Exactly!
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:30 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 11:20 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 5:50 am
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Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 11:20 am
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_Morgane Fay_ Individual 171192 Hum, I suppose if they can whine about that I should starting whining about how I'm not naturally stronger or taller. Biology isn't fair, it's just something we all have to accept. Heh. Try mentioning that and they'll accuse feminists of wanting "special rights" and "double standards" and "secretly liking chivalry" faster than the speed of light. I SHOULD BE ABLE TO PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT, DAMMIT! /wryness. Haha, physiological differences should always dictate how we act socially and lead to someone being punched in the face, duh! That's the point I was trying to make!
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