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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 8:16 pm
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I feel silly for asking this, I know that everyone has issues with relationships and finding love, but I really just want someone to tell me what I know I need to hear.
I'm falling for my best friend. I didn't mean to...it's surprised me, if that's at all possible. I honestly don't want to be attracted to him, and it is appalling to me that part of my heart even wants that, because I know that's not the role I was meant to play in his life. All my logic is there- He's not a christian. He is not mine. He just got out of a relationship, one that shattered his heart. If I were to date him, even if it were with the knowledge he is not the man God has for me, then I know I would be doing irreparable damage. To him, to me, to our relationship as it is now. If I were to ask for more from him, I would lose all I have. I would be responsible for pushing him further away from God, because after he trusted me with so delicate a thing, there is no way I could be trusted with mending what I myself had broken anew.
Yet, for as much as I know what I should do, there are moments where I find myself wanting something else. I want God. I need God. I want all of him, to drown in his promise. I want his will, I want his blessing. If I do this after recieving a blatant "no", then I am outright disobeying my Lord. I know that. I want to run from this temptation, this inkling of desire.
But how does one run from herself? How do I carve that part of my heart out and throw it away? I will. I will do whatever necessary, because God has given me the grace to see the danger in that desire...
I just don't know how.
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 8:00 am
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 4:18 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 10:15 pm
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I don't even know. I think its partially because I spend so much time with him, partially because society tells me that my best friend cannot possibly be a guy unless I am secretly attracted to him, and partially because I see so much in him, he is a great guy. (( Details of which I wont get into. You don't want to hear all that case, just take my word for it. ))
He trusted me with his heart. He dated my best friend in high school, and after they broke up, it emotionally shattered him in some ways. So, he turned to me. He talked to me. He trusted me with his dreams, with his fears...and I could never truly ask him for more than his friendship. He'd never feel that way about me in the first place, and if it didn't work out, who would he have? He's been in some rough places, and by some miracle God has trusted me to be there for him. I don't want to betray that trust. Either God, or my friend's.
Thank you. I need it.
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Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 2:25 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 9:25 pm
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Steadfast Hope I don't even know. I think its partially because I spend so much time with him, partially because society tells me that my best friend cannot possibly be a guy unless I am secretly attracted to him, and partially because I see so much in him, he is a great guy. (( Details of which I wont get into. You don't want to hear all that case, just take my word for it. )) He trusted me with his heart. He dated my best friend in high school, and after they broke up, it emotionally shattered him in some ways. So, he turned to me. He talked to me. He trusted me with his dreams, with his fears...and I could never truly ask him for more than his friendship. He'd never feel that way about me in the first place, and if it didn't work out, who would he have? He's been in some rough places, and by some miracle God has trusted me to be there for him. I don't want to betray that trust. Either God, or my friend's. Thank you. I need it.
He trusted you with his heart but you do not trust your own heart
and why the self sabotage certainly your smiling face is God's greatest joy so what if he is not Christian if God wanted him to be then he will find his own path and without any help perhaps he is the one for you just as God has planed
you will never know if you don't try
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 12:15 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:37 am
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 6:05 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 8:06 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:22 am
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Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:51 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 10:23 pm
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 12:05 pm
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