Just seeking some advice.

[Markscyther]

Hey, Everyone. I've been busy "Still" trying to find myself, and I had. No doubt I'm a girl, but I still can't accept dressing like one. It doesn't make me feel as comfortable as I thought it would. ... Just more insecure. I'm a guy at heart, not gonna lie. But I know I'm girl on the outside and I accept it.

I've been letting my hair grow out recently, and yet it doesn't feel like, "Me", but I've been doing it because of my dad (whom I hate) just to be accepted more by him, but I realize it's not worth it. Now here is where it gets a bit more technical. After I told him I didn't want to dress the way he want me to, he started to harass me by saying rude slurs, calls and leave messages on my phone, and even come to my house when I ask for him to leave me alone.

I'm not sure what to do, but should I get a restraining order? I'm not sure about doing it due to my aunt being on his side (and she's my guardian)  

[WindWife]

If you feel like you cannot handle the situation and or feel physically threatened i think you should attempt to do what you think is best- aka the restraining order.
Tho since your aunt is your guardian and is on his side that might be difficult.. are there any other options?

 

[Quiet Marionette]

If you haven't gotten to, try to explain to him how you feel about it, and how the way he is acting is causing you to feel? Explain to him that it's not as simple as flipping a switch, and that if he really wants you to be more 'feminine', that it will take time. I personally still live with my mom, because I've nowhere else to go at this particular point in my life, and while she does not approve of my love for fellow women, she doesn't say anything about it, because she is "Happy I'm not out slutting myself to every boy I cross", in her own words, "Like every other girl" that happens to be my age. I guess it's the silver lining of it. She may not like it, but she knows she can't change who I am so suddenly, and anything my mom can't change instantly, or get it worked on quickly, such as when a pipe burst and we got it fixed within ten days. which I thought was awesome how fast they worked, Since she knows she can't change this about me, she simply ignores it as much as possible.  

[Cashmerella]

I'm so sorry to hear about this!! *HUGS* It's something nobody should have to go through.
You don't deserve to be harrassed. You should definitely consider a restraining order, but in the end it's all up to you so I'd weigh all options. Maybe talk with your aunt about it if she's a factor?
I wish you the best. And good for you, for not being afraid to be yourself. c: