Turned out fwb of 3 years has a girlfriend this whole time.

[StreetchIck123]

http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/life-issues/i-told-her-update/t.94584237_76/

If anyone wants more details of what happened. This is the link to my mule.

He wasn't my boyfriend as I said so in the posts, he was actually my fwb of over 3 years. He's been sleeping with me while in a relationship with this other girl. I found out. I told her everything and i'm sorry I didn't know. She confronted him, I couldn't cause I got stuck in traffic.

I have to ask, why, why do people do this to the ones they care about?

I'm so hurt, betrayed, and angry. This was never an agreement to sleep with a taken guy. I really don't know why I posted this...perhaps that I wanted some reassurance that I will be okay. It has been a very, very long time since I've been in a relationship or been involved with a guy like this. I'm very inexperiences with guys.

I want to know if anyone can understand or see why he did what he did? I feel like I was never good enough. I was just some piece of hole for his meat to stick in. I sent him a text because I just had to tell him how I felt. I didn't get the chance to confront so I sent that text. I want nothing to do with him. I'm asking to how I can move on with this?

I see a pattern of guys treating me like crap. I feel like I'm the problem here somehow? I try to get to know them first before anything happens. However, 6 months to later, I end up either: used, abused, etc.  

[Nikolita]

It sounds like she didn't know he was also sleeping with you? Who did he start sleeping with first? Regardless, he's the one who comes off as the sleazeball.

FWB can be tricky; often feelings come into play for at least one of the people involved. I have not personally heard of many people be in FWB or open relationships and not have it backfire for at least one person.

The problem is not with you, just with the people you're involved with. *hugs*