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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Right. Because I subconsciously viewed my stance and actions as being overly impactful, and my own importance as being above others in some way. I recognize that now, and I'll change it.
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4/1/15 1:41am
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
It's alright. I understand where you're coming from, and I think you have the right to lash out when you feel you've been wronged. I'm going to definitely rethink my use of lingo- especially the word "privilege" in the future.
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4/1/15 1:20am
Pelliwag
Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Foam parties sound pretty awesome.
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3/31/15 10:49pm
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Ok, got it. Look, I really am sorry you had to put up with my ignorance, and I'm grateful that you took the time to respond. I know it's not your job to correct my behavior, so thank you.
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3/31/15 10:47pm
Pelliwag
Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Why would you assume that? I saw your other response to the thread, and i get it. I am being a privileged, self-centered b***h. I came from a privledged background, I'm trying to gain some perspective, and i made this about me. I'm sorry for that, and i see how idiotic this whole thing is. I just feel like it's better to talk about things than to ignore them.
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3/31/15 9:51pm
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
yes, yes I'm a moron. Thank you so much for your contribution.
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3/31/15 9:38pm
Pelliwag
Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Ugh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to come off that way. I don't really get relationships in general, to be honest, nor do I go to a lot of bars. :sweat: Maybe I need a break from tumblr. -.-
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3/31/15 8:27pm
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
I suppose so; I just hope that it's understood I just want to have a good time. I don't think I'm homophobic- at least, I've never done anything that was consciously malicious toward anyone of a marginalized orientation. The thing is, it's like racism, where it's the small, internalized things that matter and add up.Things that people who grew up privileged have no idea they're doing. I'm a litt ...
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3/31/15 7:53pm
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
Ok, well I'm probably going to go then. The bars in SF'S Castro are probably not in any danger, even though in general the city is fairly accepting of different sexualities. I'm just worried that maybe the reason for that is tourism, and people of non-marginalized sexualities using these places as a zoo. I guess I'll just have fun though; hopefully a little drinking and barhopping won't be too ...
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3/31/15 6:18pm
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Is it ethical to visit gay bars if I'm not gay? 59 The GD 4/1/15 11:15pm
Pelliwag
So, I have this friend who wants to go bar hopping in the Castro district of San Francisco for her 21st birthday with me and a few others. The area is famously a LGBT/MOGAI neighborhood, and it's where all the gay bars are. My friend is lesbian, but I am not. As an asexual woman, I feel like by going and having fun in the gay community, I might be encroaching on a place that's sort of a safe h ...
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3/31/15 5:56pm
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What No One Else Will Draw 33 Art Freebies 3/30/15 8:30am
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Pretty sleepy. I'm sorry, gotta pick this up tomorrow. :zzz:
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3/30/15 8:14am
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What No One Else Will Draw 33 Art Freebies 3/30/15 8:30am
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Oh no! I really d hope you're able to come out of it before you're drawn in! And yesss, flu season is the worst. I'm falling asleep, so I'll talk to you later, ok?
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3/30/15 8:10am
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What No One Else Will Draw 33 Art Freebies 3/30/15 8:30am
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Hello, dreamer!
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3/30/15 8:08am
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What No One Else Will Draw 33 Art Freebies 3/30/15 8:30am
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I.... I tried.....
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3/30/15 7:53am
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