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I Think I'm Aromantic 3 Life Issues 9/15/14 5:08pm
Austere Lifestyle
We can't tell you what any of your identities are. We aren't in your brain. Only you can decide whether to take on that identity or not. However, you can do some research into what your orientation is. Possibly the best way to research is to talk to other people with the identity and listen to some of their experiences. Your experiences are your own and will be different from other peoples', ...
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9/15/14 5:08pm
faretheewell
Accutane/Clarus - Isotretinoin pills to help acne 3 Life Issues 9/14/14 3:02am
Gebo Berkano
I went on Accutane 3 times, my brother was on it once. It's pretty scary stuff. The first time I went on it, it made a small improvement to my acne, but it was not a fully satisfactory experience. I later found that this was due to my doctor prescribing the wrong dose for me. The second time, it cleared my acne up completely. I was very happy with it. I took the pills for the recommended ...
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9/12/14 7:51pm
faretheewell
I left girlfriend of 2 yrs for another girl and I regret it? 49 Life Issues 9/15/14 10:01pm
Harukanez
You are missing or ignoring something very important here. Your ex-girlfriend has agency. She has control over her own life. She has her own emotions. She has, and has always had, a life that is separate from you, and she has the power and the right to make decisions based upon those emotions and what is best for her in her life. Now she, using that power of agency, has told you exactly w ...
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9/11/14 6:19pm
faretheewell
Parents keep freaking out 16 Life Issues 9/16/14 2:28pm
mangachan
I know. In some ways it is. In other ways it won't be, but stick to your guns. You don't have to tell them that this is making your anxiety worse. From your initial post, and also from your responses here, I gather that they wouldn't be exactly understanding. So the question is: 1) What, exactly, do you need? What is at the core of what you need? You need them to back off. You need ...
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9/11/14 5:31pm
faretheewell
I'm unsure of my sexuality and I hate myself (Mature) 21 Life Issues 9/14/14 4:02am
Sick Salacious X
I did not figure out my sexuality until I was 27, and I'm still learning about it. Not knowing exactly who you are at 21 is not a huge deal. 21 is supposed to be a time for self-discovery. You already know a lot of things about yourself. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to know everything about who you are all at once. Life is about learning who you are. For now, identify yourself ...
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9/11/14 5:23pm
faretheewell
Parents keep freaking out 16 Life Issues 9/16/14 2:28pm
mangachan
Tell them. Draw up some boundaries. You are an adult living on your own, you can request that your parents respect that. So you can go to your mom and say "Mom, I appreciate your concern for my wellbeing, but your constant stress about this is not helping. Please trust that I am on top of things, you no longer have to remind me. You have given me a good framework and good tools to work with. ...
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9/11/14 4:55pm
faretheewell
My Boyfriend is Threatening Suicide [updated] 41 Life Issues 9/12/14 7:41am
KittKatt007
-Do you believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated? -Do you wonder if you're the one who is crazy? -Does your partner blame you for their own abusive behaviour? -Does your partner see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person? -Does your partner control where you go or what you do? The above questions are the warning signs I can see in this update alone. Now I kno ...
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9/9/14 4:35pm
faretheewell
what in fresh hell happened....should i be worried 9 Life Issues 9/10/14 4:15am
BawllsNova
It sounds a little bit like an anxiety attack. Or at least it sounds an awful lot like how I often experience anxiety attacks. I get these sometimes, often not triggered by anything specific at all. For me I've learned that I'm prone to attacks like this tied to my menstrual cycle, though no one has been able to figure out what could possibly be happening to me on that day every month to caus ...
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9/9/14 3:29am
faretheewell
Do I have to formally break things off? Or. 15 Life Issues 9/9/14 3:29am
Victoire Royale Chevrette
^ This. Definitely this.
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9/9/14 3:06am
faretheewell
Can you press charges against someone for punching you? 12 Life Issues 9/10/14 5:15am
fuzzy . chaos
Often, yes. The person cannot be charged if you hit back, but you can definitely report it. I encourage you to do so especially if it is a family member. There should be no place for violence in the home.
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9/8/14 10:33pm
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My Boyfriend is Threatening Suicide [updated] 41 Life Issues 9/12/14 7:41am
KittKatt007
Your boyfriend is abusing you. You are in an abusive relationship. On this page there is a list of questions that pinpoint an abusive relationship, divided into four categories. From what you have said in this thread, here are the ones that apply here. 1. Do you... -Feel afraid of your partner much of the time? -avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner? -believe t ...
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9/8/14 10:08pm
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Infidelity: Is it really that common? 83 Lifestyle Discussion 9/6/14 1:00am
My Little Spider Friend
You know that a thread like this is going to end up with some serious confirmation bias attached to it, right? Making a thread about infidelity, particularly a thread asking for people's experiences with infidelity is going to attract responses from people who have stories about infidelity to share. This will be disproportionate to the responses from people who have never experienced such an eve ...
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9/5/14 11:50pm
faretheewell
How Can A Human Be Asexual? 44 Lifestyle Discussion 9/6/14 11:42pm
Childish Intellect
Well fairly easily, actually. It's something that happens naturally, and sexual people don't have to understand it for the experience to be real.
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9/5/14 10:31pm
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Was I disloyal? 40 Life Issues 9/15/14 11:32am
miissLips
Right now, as things stand, no you have not been disloyal and you have not cheated. You made what you now feel was a mistake after being put in a very uncomfortable position. You were also manipulated. Aaron attempted to get you to go further and become more intimate initially, then requested to cuddle. After what he'd been asking for initially cuddling seemed innocent by comparison, at leas ...
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9/5/14 8:00pm
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Masturbating (18+ only, please) (SOLVED) 12 Life Issues 9/5/14 1:17am
Fullmetal Gurren Titan
Here. Try these. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3JE8oj_bWI&list=UUkxMlA7rt-mnIc1AjbyAsPw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClbmURYMFew&list=UUkxMlA7rt-mnIc1AjbyAsPw&index=34 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaHudJWwM8I&index=33&list=UUkxMlA7rt-mnIc1AjbyAsPw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrXl4bPPQ9Y&list=UUJm5yR1KFcysl_0I3x-iReg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qJ5O6L6Jk8k&list=UUJm ...
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