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you should be happy with what you have... embrace your small boobs! Id much rather small than big. I need an 8E (US 30E, UK 30F) and it just doesnt exist anywhere! Bra shopping is a nightmare, i need to go to specialist stores just to get them. and then trying to get tops and dresses that fit... i have to go up sizes just so that my boobs fit in, and then the clothes are way too big around my mid ...
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just elude confidence, confidence is sexy 8) really tho, all you can do is remain positive and trust him. i know its hard but it will get easier.
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ummm i think you need to just get to know each of them better... that way you can suss them out for who they are. with relationships, it doesnt work out just cause you like them, you need to be able to get along with each other and have some sort of compatibility personality wise. so i think getting to know each of them better would be a good idea. then you'll be better equiped to make up your min ...
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hey... i have a similar situation but i have broken out of the insecurity, so hopefully i can help! okay so its been a year and a half since my first serious boyfriend dumped me. we were together about a year and a half, and thru that time he constantly put me down and made me feel like crap. he cheated on me multiple times, eventually leaving me for his abusive ex. so yeh, that was a great con ...
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its all okay~ whenever i want colour to stay in for a long time i bleach it first so that it lasts ages. its not good for your hair though :sweat:
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well firstly, its still there because your hair was bleached before dying... bleaching dries the hair right out so when the dye goes on it soaks it right in and traps it a lot better and takes forever to come out. i put 6 wash dye in my sisters hair straight after bleaching and we had to dye over it 6 months later. you dont need to bleach it to get the colour out, you'll be okay just dying over ...
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youre not sure on what you want pierced, which gives me the impression that you want the piercing for the piercings beauty, but just for the sake of having another. if you really should get a piercing, then youll know what you want and you'll go out and get it. you wouldnt need to ask what you should get. thats just the way i see it anyway. when i want one, i know what i want and i go and get it.
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if youre not sure, or have any doubt or uncertainty, then you are not ready. and because you do, i dont think you are ready and you shouldnt do it.
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its not that im not attracted to him... i mean, hes a very physically attractive guy, hes sweet, got his life in order... hes the sorta guy id imagine my dad wanting me to bring home. however, it is quite different to what im used to, so perhaps im just taking time to adapt?
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thanks yeh im in the process of waiting it out now... its just very different. i mean, last night we had a study night and he gave me a bunch of flowers... for no reason. as nice as it is to see how much someone genuinely cares about me, its still really scary because it feels uneven. usually im the one to fall quick but i guess im a fair bit more guarded than i used to be and now take forever to ...
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yeh i agree with yuri... i can understand to a degree that she might think you dont trust her because you didnt tell her, but you were respecting your brothers privacy and the wishes of your family, so i dont think she shouldnt be upset...
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okay so basically i just need some advice on what to do with my bf... any help would be really appreciated =) basic info - we're both 21, went to school together finishing in 04, had lost contact since then, started talking and going out weekly in july, had 'the talk" and it turned into a rship in mid september. problem 1 - he wont kiss me. i got glandular fever in august, was pretty si ...
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so... i just found out that from the day he found out she was single, they had been talking on the phone about getting back together. about how i thought htings were getting better on the thursday? they were... until he went on a date with her that night! he dumped me the following day on msn. i just cant ******** believe it. i feel so used and rejected. hes sleeping with her in our bed... i ...
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thankyou for your advice and support. i just spoke to him on the phone and he maintains that i am beautiful and a very desirable woman. he just said that "sometimes people dont work out". it has made me feel a little better about myself, but still... i feel like im worthless because he didnt want me. he wanted his ex. i just dont understand why he would want someone who treats him so s**t instead ...
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well, my boyfriend of a year and two months just dumped me last night. on msn. wtf? three weeks ago he cheated one me from the girl from work. i tried getting over it and it was hard. he'd get mad and frustrated at me for being upset and not getting over it. i got mad at her for it and he got mad at me for upsetting her. shouldnt he be defending me and understanding that im upset and not get ma ...
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