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Oh no...her husband hasn't left her for good. He was home on R&R and is currently back in Baghdad. She thinks it happened while he was back for his break, so honestly if she was pregnant it could have happened over a month ago since he came home around Dec. 21st and went back Jan 3rd. (I know cause her hubby and my hubby got their R&R at the same time). Anyway...I am trying to keep her calm, ...
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Trust me, I am trying to get her to take her mind off of it, but pregnancy is everywhere out there. We tried to go see a movie but while looking through the listing she saw the add for Jessica Alba's new movie and started flipping out because she thought of the fact that the actress is pregnant. I swear, she's being completely irrational now. She is assured that I'm wrong and that she took t ...
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Okay, I hate making this thread because they seem so juviniel at times, but my friend is making me crazy. My friend called me last night and told me that she thinks she's pregnant. Her man had his R&R basically a full month ago. He left at like 4 in the morning to go back on January 3rd, so the last time she had sex was a full month ago. But she also told me that she had her period at the sam ...
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The sad fact is that you aren't going to be able to do a thing in this situation. You can say whatever you want but it seems that your friend has her mind made up that this guy is meant for her. She's going to have to come the realazation herself that he is no good and that can take some time. Trust me, I know. My sister just got back together with her boyfriend that she's been dating on and ...
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I agree with IAMKOREA on his post. If those "old" friends of yours were real and decent friends, they wouldn't listen to the lies of a person they never met. It sounds to me like they were just face friends and easily took the chance to turn against you. A true and honest friend will stand beside you no matter what another person says about you, especially if its coming from a jaded ex-boyfri ...
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I noticed that the time stamp on all those are pretty late. Maybe you should attempt an earlier conversations so that he can't claim that its time for bed. Is it possible that he's still on the game which is why he won't talk by phone, so that you can't hear it? Anyways...lay down the law. Tell him that you need to talk to him on the phone and no more excuses. If he really does still love ...
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Hun, your life will get better once you stop complaining about what you don't have and start looking at what you do have. Right now you have more then a lot of people. You obviously have a computer and internet access so take heart in that. You have more then I did growing up. I never had the internet or computer until my senior year in high school, and even that was a monster of a thing that ...
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Have you had the pain since the accident, or a little after? Chances are that you were injured in the accident. And last I knew, whiplash had to do with your neck and not your lower back. Or you were agitated in the accident and continuous activity just made it worse and now more noticeable. I will repeat...go to a doctor. An MRI sounds like it is in order.
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Have you had an accident or anything lately that could have caused an injury? Lifting heavy objects somewhere? Any thing out of the ordinary that involves your back? I would say to go to a doctor hun. Back injuries and pains are nothing to mess with. You don't know what could have happened or what kind of damage could have been done. Go see a doctor and make sure that everything is okay. ...
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And depending on what you are watching, some of its fun for just a good plain laugh. My hubby got all upset once because we were watching one and the "plot" was just so damn bad that it was making me laugh hysterically and I couldn't even get into it. And some of the women are just such drama queens. I always turn to my hubby and say "No real woman sounds like that when she's having sex. Dea ...
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I'd have to admit the same thing. I don't think of porn as cheating. I mean, that would kind of mean that every time you see a couple kissing in public, you are cheating. And watching certain movie with love scenes is cheating. Watching sex, in my opinion, is not cheating. Its not like the significant other is ever going to meet that person, nor did they do anything with them. Porn to me ...
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Well... The lack of food and such is neglect. But that's really about it. All my clothes were hand-me-downs as well. There is no law out there saying that all your clothes has to be brand new. As long as you have clothes on your body then you should be thankful. Also, a hand-me-down cell phone? Honestly...don't complain about that. Some people never get cell phones, be they brand new or ...
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So talk to your family about it, bring them out of the dark. If you want to marry this man then they are going to need to know eventually and the sooner the better. I would say talk to them about your wishes to marry him. Let them know where everything stands right now and what you want to do. Nobodies parents know about marriage intentions until their child tells them, so I would say that's ...
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This is a hard situation. Its very hard to believe these people that claim that it wasn't them on the internet because many people use this excuse in order to say things that they want to say. But at the same time I know that it happens because it has happened to me. I would sit down and have a long talk with him about this. Ask him why he doesn't believe you or trust you when he knows that i ...
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I'm sorry Megsie_Cakes, I wasn't trying to be offensive to you, and I'm very sorry if that's the way it came off. I agree with you completely, everyone has their own opinions on relationships and cheating. I made that response in order to strength my earlier post stating not to take other opinions of cheating as her own. Because what works for you and your boyfriend may not work for her and h ...
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