D: aww lol. i once ALMOST did dms but then the crew disbanded at the last moment. they too asked for bandy and group attacks werent allowed razz
You can also ask outside the dmp gate. I'm new to dms myself but I've met several wonderful, friendly higher CLs who were willing to let me into their crew. I find its all in attitude and what rings you have.
I usually have hack slash mantis meat bandy buff buff and fitness. (These are the rings I was told I should bring. Though I did have one higher CL friend of mine tell me to carry sweet heart instead of meat.....only for other higher CL players to be like "Why don't you have meat on you little newblet?" I only found out later my friend had played a bit of a joke on me. emotion_facepalm