I can tell you some of the rules for dms if you'd like?
I do feel bad don't get me wrong but sometimes it's frustrating for certain people who dms with newer players because new players often don't understand the do's and don'ts especially if someone is tanking (aggro) it can be overwhelming depending on the situation.
Here are some ring requirements for dms for rings you may bring and rings you may not bring.
Attacks you can bring: Slash, Hack, Mantis, Bump, Solar Rays, Guns, Hot foot and I rarely see people bring Arrow but sometimes people do.
You would be better off just bringing at least two swords and Solar Rays.
You should also have every single buff and they must all be at level 10 at the least. The reason why you need to have every single buff is because which I'm pretty sure you know is that everyone gets assigned two buffs.
BUFFS
Keen
Coyote spirit
Sphere
Density
Divinity
Halo
Rock
Iron (Aggro/Tank normally carries that)
Meat (optional but I would recommend it for a beginner)
ghost
I think that's all the buffs other than sweetheart but you don't really "need" it it's just nice a nice buff to have.
you also should know how to R4 your buffs.
And also do you follow orders well?
Almost all crews have a tank unless you do speed.
Never follow the tank or it will screw things over. Never EVER go in until the tank says "in." That is super important also don't go near the tank when he/she is distracting the monsters.
Don't kneel near monsters cuz that will kill you
and don't solo a monster.
if you follow these you should be ok.
Anyway that's all I could think of that came up at the top of my head so far. I wish you the best of luck! whee