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oh my gosh dragon------- your awesome and i agree that you should not have been kicked from that crew. though i do want to hear the other side of it, but you do take some responcibility and thats good. that means you should be forgiven.

i rarely get kicked. but when i do its cuz im in a bad mood and get a little rude towards people. in which case i do send an apology, like you said to do. yeah its normally my fault for being kicked.

i remember i got in a fight with someone because i kicked them for not switching fleet out in ps. ITS FLEET WE DONT NEED IT. but i didnt hear the user has no other rings. so i felt bad and sent a pm about it saying im sorry. luckily she was nice and wasnt mad.


I want to hear the other side of it to. no one would explain anything to me. i whispered to another crew mate whose nice, and she agreed saying it was unfair. she didnt know why i was kicked either really. i do think i pushed it too far, i kept bothering the user, and i know that was wrong. i was just asking for r4 and yeah things just went wrong.

yeah everyone gets a little moody after playing on zomg for too long. well maybe not everyone, but i do.

yeah fleet is pretty useless in ps i completely agree. you should have been paying more attention to the chat thing cuz then you would have saw that the user said she had no other rings. but yeah good for you for apologizing, and seeing your own fault in that arguement.


wow leader didnt say crap? thats dumb-- you have every right to know dragon because you are super nice and awesome.

ps theres sooo many leechers too. and sure, we can ps with 5 just fine. but when theres a leecher, my stam always goes down to like 5 while the other has it in like 94.
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you have a really good point, i think the leader should have good reasons for kicking. there must be some reason why you were kicked. maybe the other user who wasnt buffing was leaders friend and so they kicked you-- i donno.

i get a little moody sometimes during zomg but i warn people haha so they at least know why. never am i really kicked for it. and i see a lot of leechers in ps but see no reason why to tell them im kicking cuz there leeching, and dont read the chat box. i do warn them anyways. some are just lagging. but if they are lagging too much they should not even be playing.

other than that theres not too many problems in ps, at least for me. i hope there wont be too many issues when i start to smob. im only level 8 i think, so i still got a ways.


thats the thing, i was leaders friend too so i didnt think i would be the one kicked because i dont think i was wrong. leader didnt say anything though thats what makes me mad. if i was being all rude and in a bad mood and leader said nicely to sush i would. expecially if it were a friend as leader. i was not in a bad mood or anything either so i wasnt like screaming at the person to r4.

I know i did some wrong by talking to the person longer than i should have. but its not fully my fault. i r4 my buffs. i care bout the crew so we can get smob done as fast as we can, cuz rlly everyone is just there to get gold. and its harder or longer if not everyone is doing there job. i was just trying to help but i do believe i was rude.

hahaha good to warn people ur moody. but in ps you dont really have to talk too much unlike smob we have to buff check, r4, ask people if there lagging, make sure everyone stays together. its harder.

smob is harder to work with others than ps. until you are fully skilled at dealing with people, dont even try to smeb. because smeb is longer than smob it means you really got to make sure everyone is doing there job.


im sure you have a lot of other stories like this, im sorry smob can be hard sometimes. yeah i wouldnt kick you if i were leader and had you and some other friend of mine fighting. id say r4 the damn pot and move on.

ture but i like talking to my crew cuz then i know there here and not on some other page possibly leeching because that happens in ps.

never will anyone be fully skilled haha-- ill have stories like that when i start smobbing too. so your not the only one with these issues. ive seen other users post there stories too, good to see what happened to them compared to you.

though i see that clover person trolling a bit----- telling people the other side. i believe he is wuoting moon so watch out! hes quoting everyone. suprisingly not me haha. just a warning unlike the leader gave you in smob.
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oh my gosh dragon------- your awesome and i agree that you should not have been kicked from that crew. though i do want to hear the other side of it, but you do take some responcibility and thats good. that means you should be forgiven.

i rarely get kicked. but when i do its cuz im in a bad mood and get a little rude towards people. in which case i do send an apology, like you said to do. yeah its normally my fault for being kicked.

i remember i got in a fight with someone because i kicked them for not switching fleet out in ps. ITS FLEET WE DONT NEED IT. but i didnt hear the user has no other rings. so i felt bad and sent a pm about it saying im sorry. luckily she was nice and wasnt mad.


I want to hear the other side of it to. no one would explain anything to me. i whispered to another crew mate whose nice, and she agreed saying it was unfair. she didnt know why i was kicked either really. i do think i pushed it too far, i kept bothering the user, and i know that was wrong. i was just asking for r4 and yeah things just went wrong.

yeah everyone gets a little moody after playing on zomg for too long. well maybe not everyone, but i do.

yeah fleet is pretty useless in ps i completely agree. you should have been paying more attention to the chat thing cuz then you would have saw that the user said she had no other rings. but yeah good for you for apologizing, and seeing your own fault in that arguement.


wow leader didnt say crap? thats dumb-- you have every right to know dragon because you are super nice and awesome.

ps theres sooo many leechers too. and sure, we can ps with 5 just fine. but when theres a leecher, my stam always goes down to like 5 while the other has it in like 94.


again, i know i am a little at fault in this story. i was a little rude, but because i send a good apology you would think a friend would answer back feeling bad also about it.

i have pleanty of other good stories but this one made no sense to me as to why i was kicked, it bothered me so much. i wanted to vent and write a thread. i think its not so bad because i name some good reasons why to kick, what happens or what to do when you get kicked.

i made some good points. the story is just an example. the thread is really about why people shouldnt be kicked because what happened to me i dont want to happen to others. the leaders need to be good communicators i think is one major issue. expecially with smob and dms.
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you have a really good point, i think the leader should have good reasons for kicking. there must be some reason why you were kicked. maybe the other user who wasnt buffing was leaders friend and so they kicked you-- i donno.

i get a little moody sometimes during zomg but i warn people haha so they at least know why. never am i really kicked for it. and i see a lot of leechers in ps but see no reason why to tell them im kicking cuz there leeching, and dont read the chat box. i do warn them anyways. some are just lagging. but if they are lagging too much they should not even be playing.

other than that theres not too many problems in ps, at least for me. i hope there wont be too many issues when i start to smob. im only level 8 i think, so i still got a ways.


thats the thing, i was leaders friend too so i didnt think i would be the one kicked because i dont think i was wrong. leader didnt say anything though thats what makes me mad. if i was being all rude and in a bad mood and leader said nicely to sush i would. expecially if it were a friend as leader. i was not in a bad mood or anything either so i wasnt like screaming at the person to r4.

I know i did some wrong by talking to the person longer than i should have. but its not fully my fault. i r4 my buffs. i care bout the crew so we can get smob done as fast as we can, cuz rlly everyone is just there to get gold. and its harder or longer if not everyone is doing there job. i was just trying to help but i do believe i was rude.

hahaha good to warn people ur moody. but in ps you dont really have to talk too much unlike smob we have to buff check, r4, ask people if there lagging, make sure everyone stays together. its harder.

smob is harder to work with others than ps. until you are fully skilled at dealing with people, dont even try to smeb. because smeb is longer than smob it means you really got to make sure everyone is doing there job.


im sure you have a lot of other stories like this, im sorry smob can be hard sometimes. yeah i wouldnt kick you if i were leader and had you and some other friend of mine fighting. id say r4 the damn pot and move on.

ture but i like talking to my crew cuz then i know there here and not on some other page possibly leeching because that happens in ps.

never will anyone be fully skilled haha-- ill have stories like that when i start smobbing too. so your not the only one with these issues. ive seen other users post there stories too, good to see what happened to them compared to you.

though i see that clover person trolling a bit----- telling people the other side. i believe he is wuoting moon so watch out! hes quoting everyone. suprisingly not me haha. just a warning unlike the leader gave you in smob.


thank you glace--- you would have said something about it like a good leader should!

thats a good idea how to spot leechers without having to stare at the crew box all the time. ill try that when i ps, i do sometimes when no one is around for smob.

he can troll, he has the right to speak his side of the story. glad i finally got to hear it. though i think because of him this thread is being hated. when i am clearly saying, i messed up too.
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oh my gosh dragon------- your awesome and i agree that you should not have been kicked from that crew. though i do want to hear the other side of it, but you do take some responcibility and thats good. that means you should be forgiven.

i rarely get kicked. but when i do its cuz im in a bad mood and get a little rude towards people. in which case i do send an apology, like you said to do. yeah its normally my fault for being kicked.

i remember i got in a fight with someone because i kicked them for not switching fleet out in ps. ITS FLEET WE DONT NEED IT. but i didnt hear the user has no other rings. so i felt bad and sent a pm about it saying im sorry. luckily she was nice and wasnt mad.


I want to hear the other side of it to. no one would explain anything to me. i whispered to another crew mate whose nice, and she agreed saying it was unfair. she didnt know why i was kicked either really. i do think i pushed it too far, i kept bothering the user, and i know that was wrong. i was just asking for r4 and yeah things just went wrong.

yeah everyone gets a little moody after playing on zomg for too long. well maybe not everyone, but i do.

yeah fleet is pretty useless in ps i completely agree. you should have been paying more attention to the chat thing cuz then you would have saw that the user said she had no other rings. but yeah good for you for apologizing, and seeing your own fault in that arguement.


wow leader didnt say crap? thats dumb-- you have every right to know dragon because you are super nice and awesome.

ps theres sooo many leechers too. and sure, we can ps with 5 just fine. but when theres a leecher, my stam always goes down to like 5 while the other has it in like 94.


again, i know i am a little at fault in this story. i was a little rude, but because i send a good apology you would think a friend would answer back feeling bad also about it.

i have pleanty of other good stories but this one made no sense to me as to why i was kicked, it bothered me so much. i wanted to vent and write a thread. i think its not so bad because i name some good reasons why to kick, what happens or what to do when you get kicked.

i made some good points. the story is just an example. the thread is really about why people shouldnt be kicked because what happened to me i dont want to happen to others. the leaders need to be good communicators i think is one major issue. expecially with smob and dms.


yeah you keep repeating that. i know you can be a little annoying when oyu only have a short amount of time to smob, and you want to be effecient and make sure evryone is doing there job, but YOU WERE NOT LEADER.

something like that would bother me to, but you should try fixing it by pms, because now the dude found this thread and im sure is mad. tru the thread isnt about the example, but still you should watch out.
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you have a really good point, i think the leader should have good reasons for kicking. there must be some reason why you were kicked. maybe the other user who wasnt buffing was leaders friend and so they kicked you-- i donno.

i get a little moody sometimes during zomg but i warn people haha so they at least know why. never am i really kicked for it. and i see a lot of leechers in ps but see no reason why to tell them im kicking cuz there leeching, and dont read the chat box. i do warn them anyways. some are just lagging. but if they are lagging too much they should not even be playing.

other than that theres not too many problems in ps, at least for me. i hope there wont be too many issues when i start to smob. im only level 8 i think, so i still got a ways.


thats the thing, i was leaders friend too so i didnt think i would be the one kicked because i dont think i was wrong. leader didnt say anything though thats what makes me mad. if i was being all rude and in a bad mood and leader said nicely to sush i would. expecially if it were a friend as leader. i was not in a bad mood or anything either so i wasnt like screaming at the person to r4.

I know i did some wrong by talking to the person longer than i should have. but its not fully my fault. i r4 my buffs. i care bout the crew so we can get smob done as fast as we can, cuz rlly everyone is just there to get gold. and its harder or longer if not everyone is doing there job. i was just trying to help but i do believe i was rude.

hahaha good to warn people ur moody. but in ps you dont really have to talk too much unlike smob we have to buff check, r4, ask people if there lagging, make sure everyone stays together. its harder.

smob is harder to work with others than ps. until you are fully skilled at dealing with people, dont even try to smeb. because smeb is longer than smob it means you really got to make sure everyone is doing there job.


im sure you have a lot of other stories like this, im sorry smob can be hard sometimes. yeah i wouldnt kick you if i were leader and had you and some other friend of mine fighting. id say r4 the damn pot and move on.

ture but i like talking to my crew cuz then i know there here and not on some other page possibly leeching because that happens in ps.

never will anyone be fully skilled haha-- ill have stories like that when i start smobbing too. so your not the only one with these issues. ive seen other users post there stories too, good to see what happened to them compared to you.

though i see that clover person trolling a bit----- telling people the other side. i believe he is wuoting moon so watch out! hes quoting everyone. suprisingly not me haha. just a warning unlike the leader gave you in smob.


thank you glace--- you would have said something about it like a good leader should!

thats a good idea how to spot leechers without having to stare at the crew box all the time. ill try that when i ps, i do sometimes when no one is around for smob.

he can troll, he has the right to speak his side of the story. glad i finally got to hear it. though i think because of him this thread is being hated. when i am clearly saying, i messed up too.


i understand if a leader is in a bad mood but just wanted to smob--- but if there in a rlly bad mood they should not be leader.

yeah he has the right to speak i guess. im just sad that he upset my buddy. at least u sent apologies.
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Uh, it's their and not there. Their signifies ownership from a person/thing. There is a place. ouo Sorry, that was bothering me.

As for the guide. I kinda feel like it's unnecessary since if you do get kicked by someone and you're not jacking off the leader probably was an a*****e and it was better that you were kicked. Also, while you did have good intentions with R4 Pot your wording can be read off as very rude and I probably would have taken it offensively.


i agree i was some what rude. but i believe the other was more rude and refusing to r4. leader did not say anything, i wish he had so i would not have gotton kicked because i felt bad for what happened.

i send apologies but leader has not answered yet and i hope fpr him to stay on my friends list for what happened.

It happens and to be honest, R4 Pot is not a big deal. I'd have ignored it if everything else goes smoothly.
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I agree with it all aside from not just dropping it if you were kicked, do you honestly need to know why? There's plenty other crews you can join.
Aaand you can just tell them how to rage instead of kicking them for their ignorance. If they ignore you on it kick them.
Uhm I'm pretty sure I know how to rage. I'm cl 12, and I've been playing zOMG! since it came out. Just saying.

...Good to know? Although I'm pretty sure my reply wasn't at you?
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I always feel horribly uncomfortable kicking people.
There are times when I want to but know it's unreasonable - like people refusing to bring/take off rings, so I don't.

Then there's times when people get into arguments or something and just ruin the mood of a crew and the whole run is just a headache, but then it turns into a mess and people are more upset and this and that and blargh.
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The only time I kick someone is if we're really being slowed down, like from leeching or constantly letting buffs fall and killing us on more than one occasion.

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I should stick to letting her scare people away.
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blaugh blaugh blaugh I'm so happy you knew who I was even with the new username. LOL
And that me scaring others away didn't get me in trouble. >w>
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This fits in with the bad crew category.
I've been in this situation, and when i whispered the leader they told me "You were being annoying." because I told someone to stop leeching.


what the heck then. i agree if someone is leeching you speak up and suggest to kick them. ive never been in a situation when they don't kick someone for leeching.
You told him to kick me, I wasn't leeching. sooo


i auggested it because you were refusing to r4 a buff and were being rude.
Yes but you wouldn't have been kicked if you wouldn't have told him to kick me. That's why I got crown and kicked you.
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Hiya. long time no talk xD
There could be s few reason why they didn't R4 you. Maybe your screen was glitched. Making pot a vis of R1? Maybe the person didn't read the chat and didn't know you needed it? Could also be lag was eating their range. They could of also tried to rebuff you but you missed it perchance.
Also I wouldn't say its a good idea to PM the leader to asked why you got kicked. Maybe whisper? But I dunno. PMing bout it seems just. Idk. xD I can't really hear anything til I see both sides of the story though.


he litterly told me he will not r4 it. i was thinking "its not very hard and its pot so it comes out r1 by acciedent a lot" and a good amount of people in the crew had r1 and yeah.

i did send an apology to both the leader and the one who wasnting r4ing (cuz i was a little rude back about it). leader did not answer. the one who didnt rage told me i was kicked to make leader laugh. there are other ways to make someone laugh than by acting rude then kicking someone who didnt deserve to be kicked.
You act like not having r4 pot is going to cause people to fail and die. Honestly you don't even need pot in the first place. Its not like its rock or iron. Calm down.
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oh my gosh dragon------- your awesome and i agree that you should not have been kicked from that crew. though i do want to hear the other side of it, but you do take some responcibility and thats good. that means you should be forgiven.

i rarely get kicked. but when i do its cuz im in a bad mood and get a little rude towards people. in which case i do send an apology, like you said to do. yeah its normally my fault for being kicked.

i remember i got in a fight with someone because i kicked them for not switching fleet out in ps. ITS FLEET WE DONT NEED IT. but i didnt hear the user has no other rings. so i felt bad and sent a pm about it saying im sorry. luckily she was nice and wasnt mad.
you want to know the other side of the story? fine my friend wasn't in such a good mood so I became a minor troll to make him laugh. then she got annoying. So I got lead really quick and kicked her. Plain and simple.


so you kicked someone to cheer someone else up...thats kind of lame. i mean, i know dragon can be a little demanding but im sure if leader warned her or said something she would have shut it.
She should have dropped it in the first place. Its pot, its not a buff that you honestly need.
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this is like my opposite troll guide.. anyways Ill be much love this thread if the mods didnt delete dat thread XD
I had a hard time deciding whether or not to reply to this thread. It's so lulzy and filled with drama. o 3o

dragonlover5, a good thing to keep in mind while you're in a crew:
If you're not leader, keep your mouth shut.
-- I, myself, have big problems when people pretty much "take over", for lack of better words, my crews. All you have to do is say it once, and if it's a problem for the leader, they'll address it. I even have these issues when I play with friends and most know to keep their mouth shut when I'm leader or aggro.

Really, going on about it is only going to make your time in the crew shorter and more of your fault than any one else. People doing what you apparently did in that crew are reasons why I leave my crews without any warning, regardless what position I have. If I'm the leader then everyone should be listening to what I say, unless stated otherwise. If buffs fall, it should be only said once and that would get the leader's attention and if buff haven't been addressed then the it's the leaders place to do something about it. If a member doesn't like the way the leader is handling something in regards to that, they can just as easily leave rather than being an annoyance.

Also, this thread was indirectly a name drop.
-- That in itself is rude and uncalled for. Not to mention, your "guide" is irrelevant. If someone kicks someone or yourself, big deal as others have said. Just go find a new crew, or make one yourself. If you don't like the rules someone has or the way their doing things next time start your own crew instead of basically bitching about how others work.


Now, Hemotoxic Clover, you could have handled this thread much better and more mature that what you have; It's a little disappointing how you've gone about yourself within this thread.


Learn from your actions and mistakes in others eyes; just drop the subject already you too. Quit bickering.

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Hiya. long time no talk xD
There could be s few reason why they didn't R4 you. Maybe your screen was glitched. Making pot a vis of R1? Maybe the person didn't read the chat and didn't know you needed it? Could also be lag was eating their range. They could of also tried to rebuff you but you missed it perchance.
Also I wouldn't say its a good idea to PM the leader to asked why you got kicked. Maybe whisper? But I dunno. PMing bout it seems just. Idk. xD I can't really hear anything til I see both sides of the story though.


he litterly told me he will not r4 it. i was thinking "its not very hard and its pot so it comes out r1 by acciedent a lot" and a good amount of people in the crew had r1 and yeah.

i did send an apology to both the leader and the one who wasnting r4ing (cuz i was a little rude back about it). leader did not answer. the one who didnt rage told me i was kicked to make leader laugh. there are other ways to make someone laugh than by acting rude then kicking someone who didnt deserve to be kicked.
You act like not having r4 pot is going to cause people to fail and die. Honestly you don't even need pot in the first place. Its not like its rock or iron. Calm down.


like i said in zomg-- its not hard to r4 pot and by refusing to do something so simple is just stupid

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