...If you find this whole thing to be ridiculous, I honestly can't blame you....
In a story that I have been working on for years, there is a character named J.. He comes into the story somewhat late compared to the main family who has been at the center of things for quite a while. (He and his brother are cousins to the main family, by the way.) But, he became quite vital to the story while I was writing and has turned out to be quite complex.
Now that quite a bit of time has gone by within the story, it has been revealed that he has struggled with some kind of sexual addiction. His family found out that he witnessed a someone being sexually abused at a young age and the trauma from witnessing it manifested into an addiction. He is a rather charming person at first glance and is relatively handsome...but has grown up being quite promiscuous. This is his background in summary. In the present time within the story, he is trying to overcome his addiction.
He has managed to remain abstinent but still suffers from the shame of having been sexually abused and having been promiscuous.
This character kind of unraveled in this way without me really meaning him to, but I can't help but really appreciate him in the story. What I am stumped on right now is how to develop him so that he can actually overcome his shame. If anyone has any ideas, that would be so great.
I write my stories with my sister. They are typically complex due them being very comedic at first glance, but have surprisingly dark and sometimes bitter-sweet elements to them, and can be quite surreal and very bizarre.
So, once again, any help on this would be great. smile I have tried doing research on the topic, but I was really curious to see what people on gaia would suggest.