rchill07
he doesn't get on much anymore the only reason i do is to write in the journal thing
That... sounds like such a waste that your friend made you sign up here and he doesn't go on much either...
Well, just poke around all over the place and see what interests you.
Want to talk with other people? Head to the forums, and to a thread that interests you.
Not into that? There's games like ZOMG and such.
Want to earn gold? Well, like the two above, go to forums and post in threads or games that let your earn Gold to get new clothes.
There are some events like the Easter Event happening right now, though that depends on if you have the patience to earn it, since it takes a long time usually...
Hope this helps.