I hate Twilight for the reasons you state, plus the reasons Twilight itself has given me to hate it such as the belittling of the human race and anyone of any ethnicity that isn't white, and that abuse and stalking shown in idealistic light. So, I say that you're justified in your preference, but that your ideas based on just your preference shouldn't be there just because of that, I know how badly trying to read this series would be, it was hard for me to get through the first book, but you should try and educate yourself on just how awful this series is rather than launching into a discussion with no ammunition, maybe it would be better to just read the chapter summaries on the twilight lexicon or check out this series of videos:
You Are Bella But, you know, I won't force you if you don't wish to know just how sick of a series it is.