Baru Monster
I think you missed part of the point that Andrea was making about this issue. She IS over it, because she found a reason to move forward. She wasn't saying everyone should just kill themselves, she was arguing pro-choice.
Andrea's standpoint is this: If you don't feel like you can go on in a world this tough, you shouldn't be forced to. You have to find your own reasons to go on, someone else can't FORCE you to do it because of how they think or feel. You need to decide for yourself and the option should not be taken away from you. That's why, she did not remove the option from Beth, she opened it. She allowed Beth to make her own decision because everyone else was trying to make it for her. Beth DID make a decision, she started, and then realized that she wanted to live. Lucky for her, she hadn't gotten too far. That's why Andrea smiled when Lori and Maggie told her- she even said it. "She's made her own choice to live."
If Andrea hadn't found a reason to keep her going, she WOULD have found a way regardless of Dale or anyone else.
I didn't miss it at all, I actually didn't say ANYTHING about how Andrea had allowed Beth to make her own choice, you just assumed that I had missed it since I didn't feel the need to bring it up since that isn't the point of this thread. I also never said she has the mind set that 'everyone should kill themselves' I don't know where in between the lines you managed to read that. I totally understood her standpoint. I just said I was confused since to me it seemed like she is still really hung up on the issue. How can you tell? The whole situation with Beth. She had no right to do what she did, its not her family, not her decision. She might not agree with their handling of it, but its not her decision to make. Maggie trusted her to watch Beth, she broke that trust because she had such a strong opinion on the matter, but the only reason she had no problems with it is because it didn't concern her directly. There is nothing wrong with her opinion, but if she were really over her own issues she wouldn't have handled the situation the way she did.
If I had a point with my last comment it would be that, with the way Andrea was choosing to go out, there was no 'Oops, changed my mind' at the last minute. She was never not given a choice either, Dale only said that if she was staying to get blown up, he was staying. She tried to force HIM to leave on his own, she was the one trying to take away his choice to stay with her. Was it coercion on his point? Yes. Did she have a choice? YES. She decided that Dale living was more important than her dying, and then she bitched about not being given a choice which is totally false. Yes, afterwards everyone was on suicide watch with her, which did limit her ability to choose after that point. But if she hadn't been given that initial choice she wouldn't have been able to have a change of heart and find something to live for.
Andrea's also had plenty of time to choose since then, so she should have realized that she didn't need to do what she did, if Beth wanted to do it she'd do it eventually with or without her intervention. Andrea has obviously still got a huge chip on her shoulder, which was my main point with that last bit, she is still very hung up on the issue and this incident, especially the way she handled it, proves it.