evil-little-punk-elf
On the other hand, human beings have proved that they Can live in monogamous relationships. You could compare it to ***** (sp?). You can fall in love with a twelve year old, but in our part of the world, it is considered wrong to act upon your feelings for that same twelve year old. So, hopefully, you don't.
The same thing with two married people; you can fall in love with someone else, but because it is mostly frowned upon, you don't act on those feelings. For the sake of your children, spouse or both.
My children, my husband and I all benefit from polyamory. It's not damaging at all, but in fact improves our quality of life.