fanclubwallet
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- Posted: Wed, 30 Jul 2014 07:14:09 +0000
Like I'm trying not to be mean but this friend (more accurately an acquaintance) of mine is really good at overstaying his welcome. To accurately describe him, he's kind of the textbook definition of a "low-life". But my heart goes out to him.
Yes, he always has an excuse for things not going his way and doesn't take responsibility for s**t in his life.
Yes, he gets s**t hours at gamestop and is broke & can't afford his own place.
Yes, he thinks he's above working at places like Wal Mart or McDonald's because he refuses to pay his dues.
He's borderline homeless because he's exhausted every other person's generosity...so, once more, he comes to me for help.
(Yes, he's a repeat offender here. Last time he stayed on the couch with me he pissed off my roommate & I was forced to see him out.)
I have had to remind him to apply for jobs, look for an apartment, take simple hygienic measures so he doesn't look and smell homeless. He ends up eating a LOT of my food when I was only generous enough to give him just a meal. When I used to come home from work or school I would only find him still on the couch, not even lifting a finger to help clean up or s**t. Just watched anime & played videogames all day.
UGH. It's so ******** frustrating because I've tried every means to talk to him and turn his life around, but he's very stubborn in his ways. MONTHS later, and he's still at this same bullshit. So yesterday I let him crash the night, against my better judgment. While today I did see glimpses of hope due to him letting me help him with his résumé, it was understood that he would only be returning to stay with me & my roommate for ONE night. Now it's today, and he hasn't really made much progress at all on finding another job or apartment.
I'm not the kind of person to kick someone to the curb so I made some ads on reddit and craigslist for him to let another person take him for a while. I say realistically the way he is they'll give him 1 week TOPS if they're generous. He thinks he'll get a month or 2. lol I just don't know if I should dump him tonight. If I'm really doing the right thing by making him someone else's problem to deal with. I'm acting as his safety net, when the best thing for him to improve might really be to hit rock-bottom.
What do you think guys? discuss
Yes, he always has an excuse for things not going his way and doesn't take responsibility for s**t in his life.
Yes, he gets s**t hours at gamestop and is broke & can't afford his own place.
Yes, he thinks he's above working at places like Wal Mart or McDonald's because he refuses to pay his dues.
He's borderline homeless because he's exhausted every other person's generosity...so, once more, he comes to me for help.
(Yes, he's a repeat offender here. Last time he stayed on the couch with me he pissed off my roommate & I was forced to see him out.)
I have had to remind him to apply for jobs, look for an apartment, take simple hygienic measures so he doesn't look and smell homeless. He ends up eating a LOT of my food when I was only generous enough to give him just a meal. When I used to come home from work or school I would only find him still on the couch, not even lifting a finger to help clean up or s**t. Just watched anime & played videogames all day.
UGH. It's so ******** frustrating because I've tried every means to talk to him and turn his life around, but he's very stubborn in his ways. MONTHS later, and he's still at this same bullshit. So yesterday I let him crash the night, against my better judgment. While today I did see glimpses of hope due to him letting me help him with his résumé, it was understood that he would only be returning to stay with me & my roommate for ONE night. Now it's today, and he hasn't really made much progress at all on finding another job or apartment.
I'm not the kind of person to kick someone to the curb so I made some ads on reddit and craigslist for him to let another person take him for a while. I say realistically the way he is they'll give him 1 week TOPS if they're generous. He thinks he'll get a month or 2. lol I just don't know if I should dump him tonight. If I'm really doing the right thing by making him someone else's problem to deal with. I'm acting as his safety net, when the best thing for him to improve might really be to hit rock-bottom.
What do you think guys? discuss