Depends on where you live, what you believe in and so on. In my own opinion I say yes it is a big deal. In American society, most agree with waiting until marriage. --But in other countries it can be different.
i personally, believe it's a big deal. i mean, you only have one virginity.
eh, but on the other hand i also have morals to.
some people just don't care anymore these days.
:/ [sigh] for shame.
Well now a days you can get your hymen reconstructed...So....It really doesn't matter.
It's a big deal for me, kinda, cause I'm scared I'd mess up somhow.
Haha, yeah.
I don't like thinking of it as a big deal.
If you don't think of it as something extremely important, you won't feel like you lost a part of yourself when you do it with the wrong person. surprised
There's no such thing as 'virginity'. This is just an experience you haven't had before. But if you're lesbian, you can't lose your virginity (you'd say). But that's not true. I think virginity is some level of sexual experience you've had.
Some people want to save their 'virginity' for their marriage. But this is made up in the time where people married at their 14th.