BrightestSky
I need reassurance that im doing the right thing, guys.. *sigh
A divorce is always something very dramatic. It does not just ruin your own lifes - also others. Friends that once was both of yours will probably end up taking sides. And if some one has kids - then they are torn and placed in two different boxes. It isn't just something that some one just does. And sadly, when it has been done once - it is easier to do again..
But, he has wronged you. Gone into his lusts and seen some one else. Therefor I ask you - would you trust him, not to do so again? And would you be able to live with knowing he cheated on you?
As I already mentioned probably, if it was me, I'd kick his a**, then tie him up and tell him he told me at the alter he would love and care for me - till death. And he sure doesn't look dead yet :I
But.. I would sure hate knowing he just had done it once.. Cheated. It would seem everything would be cheating. And you have walked around - unknowing of it. What else can he hide. What else is he thinking? What is on his mind? Can he be trusted?.. Does he love me?
So, dear sis.. This is not something any one else but you should choose. And I'll support you in what ever you pick. And as far as I'd understood you already had. But just keep this in mind - he apparently did not keep his interest in you up.. Or else he wouldn't have cheated. Would he be able to grain interest and love again and treasure you as you deserve. Or if not having the divorce simply being like a dog tied to a post - dreaming of escape..?