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EDC Head count! Are you going?!

YES!	11.9%	[ 5 ]
It's a definite maybe.	4.8%	[ 2 ]
No :C	45.2%	[ 19 ]
Egg salad	38.1%	[ 16 ]
Total Votes:			[ 42 ]

[Glowing Daisies]

azndreams

The phrase "opposites attract" has come up more than once in our relationship.
And you're right. It's not fair for him to be able to deem what I can and can't do. It's part of his natural urge to control things. That's just how he is. However, one of the reasons we work so well together is because I don't let him push me around. I'm one of the few people who have penetrated is hard exterior to find his jelly filled insides.

In fact even during the Skype conversation I flat out told him I'm not getting rid of my kandi.

But the thought of "Growing out of PLUR" still lingered.
I can't imagine doing that. And I know he wouldn't make me do it. I just don't want him to think of me as "childish" and "immature" .

So the question is: How do I tell him that I'm simply not giving this up, without convincing him I live in a disillusion world of neon and glitter?

[azndreams]

Glowing Daisies

I'm not sure I could help you on how to tell him, but I do know maybe ask Basset Hound Babe for some advice on that or umm I think it was Psychological STD who both had people they were committed to that didn't like or understand kandi and it was a case of opposites attract with them.

I just wonder how the future would be if he can't come to terms now with it that how he is going to think otherwise unless you were to hide it which is something you never should do in a committed relationship.

I'm going to attempt to give you a way to explain to him. I would show him videos, pics and really explain to him why it is that raving and the world of P.L.U.R means so much to him and shoot it couldn't hurt to show him the raver's manifesto as well. He might look at you weird and think I have no clue what any of this means even after you explain it to him, but maybe just maybe he'll respect your decision to love tha world.

[P l u r r p l e]

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[Glowing Daisies]

@Azn, I'll give it shot. More likely than not he'll find the manifesto lame, and the passion all bullshit, but eh. He can't take my lame bullshit away from me! lol. And I'm not gonna hide it. I think he'll probably just write it off as something that makes me happy, and as long as it doesn't have a negative effect on our life; just another one of my "quirks" rolleyes

I do so wish though that he loved it like he used to.... even if he never knew what it really was.

@Plurrple, HAII!!! <3

[azndreams]

@ Daisies I'm really mad that he used to rave and that he stopped because you said he needed to grow up? I can understand quitting for other reasons, but because of it being an immature thing that just well it's judgemental and we should never judge others. I know it's really really hard not to because we all do it from the first meeting no matter what, but still I would rather he left because he just lost the love for it or something like that. Sad though he was raving without truly understanding what it meant.

[souldriving]

@ P l u r r p l e hello there. Love right back to you.

@ Daisies okay, so he may just shove it off as another quirk of yours. I still think you could do better than someone who calls you childish regardless in the tone he said it. No one should ever want you to change who you are. They just love you for everything you like and don't like. Relationships sadly though are all about comprise.

[azndreams]

P l u r r p l e

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*waves*

[Audible Melodies]

So yesterday i went on Kandipatterns and I successfully made this cuff. Successfully I finished. I ran out of black by the end. And somewhere in the beginning i didnt put a bead somewhere so I had to fix that every line. But it turned out pretty well. C:

[Thawney]

@Audible Melodies that cuff is lovely! :3 It turned out great.

I haven't played Moga much but now that it can be played without FB in the middle, I'm back to grinding it. :3

[azndreams]

@ Audible nice cuff there. Yeah don't you hate that when you can't figure out how you messed up one step. Then you have to take like 3 rows off to fix it. Ha ha.

@ Thawney yeah I like it being on Gaia, but it's still laggy for me at times. I thought it was just FB, but guess it's just the game. Ha ha.

[Thawney]

@ azn yes, it's really laggy. But it's sort of fun still. Added a couple of neighbors to send and receive evolution potions.

Taking a test tomorrow... about the legal side of serving alcohol. Pass it, be allowed to work seerving alcohol. Test passed plus two years of work experience, be allowed to work in a supervising position or alone in the field. Probably very good for the future.

[Audible Melodies]

Yes it does get rather annoying to have to fix mistakes! I made another cuff yesterday and i did the same thing! I dont know why i keep not adding a bead. Then i get to lazy to restart or fix it. :c

[azndreams]

@ Thawney yes any kind of certificate is good to have on your resume. The more experience the better and well rounded you are for potential employers. Shoot even academic achievements are good. I miss getting letters in the mail for my scholastic achievements.

@ Audible. Oh silly you should just really focus on it. Stare it down. Ha ha. Or some music might help.