Oh wow, that's a lot of detailed responses, thank you guys!
I don't handle the food, but I wouldn't be so worried about dietary issues. This is the first event and if we prepare for every dietary issue we're really limited. We'll see who turns up and if they have a dietary issue,
then we'll accommodate it. I did try to contact a group of the cosplayers but they didn't respond, sadly. Also, we won't have to worry about male patrons. We're lucky to have a shop where the gaming room can be closed off from the shop and accessed separately, so the owner will be the only male allowed to come in.
LiaThistle
I feel like there's something missing from this...some underlying essence that is just a whiff away from being discovered - and not knowing it is going to hinder your efforts.
Wish I could tell you what it is, but it's just a nagging feeling right now.
That's exactly why I made this thread. It may already be taking effect. There's plenty of members in the facebook group now but I don't think many girls will be attending the first event...
SaintTape
I think girls are more attracted, at first, to less competitive events....As for role-playing games like D&D, you've really got to have the right group
I really understand that. I'm trying to find a DM still, and as for the group that'll form itself. So fingers crossed! Competitive events are definitely very intimidating for girls and that's actually the central point of this society. If we can get the girls comfortable playing with each other, then maybe we can get them playing the guys.
Wildshaper
I find that environment is key... Also consider that girls (particularly of the teenage years) are unlikely to go alone.
Luckily our environment is fine. I can't say anything about who will be coming. I honestly don't know pretty much anyone in the gaming community here. I didn't game when I lived here.
Wildshaper
But, OP, you said you were too scared to play FNM. How are the guys at these stores?
Luckily for me, they're very casual. I'm treated the same way they treat everyone else, until my nametag indicating that I'm a DCI judge comes out. Then I'm suddenly incredibly interesting. I only have budget decks against their $200 decks for example, and I'm scared of making a complete fool of myself from missing triggers and such. Also the countless times I forget my own plans for the turn and skip it when I haven't even moved to combat. That's really why I'm scared. I'm scared of my own resources and my own awful memory.