Astral Felidae
Yeah, that's not poly. At all. THAT is what gives poly people a bad name. If you're not honest with EVERYONE about EVERY aspect of the relationship, you're not poly. You're cheating.
I don't want to do that to my fiance at all. While I do find that I can love other people, it doesn't diminish my love for him. I he knows that, which is why we're able to build toward one or both of us having other SOs. It's actually taken me a long time to get to the point where I felt comfortable pursuing another SO. In fact, my fiance LITERALLY PUSHED me toward the girl I'm seeing now to get her number. He's been really supportive, despite the struggle.
Thank you very much c:
I thought I was being insecure, btw.. I thought I was being the immature one. I told her I specifically did not agree with it, and almost broke up with her at the time, she wouldn't have it.. She began bringing in her depressive mod and suicide attempts if I left her.
Funny thing though, I did meet a girl online and we became friends, and she became *extremely* jealous. It wasn't even a romantic thing, but I was definitely infatuated with her for a while. I wanted to meet her so bad but knew I couldn't... But in the end I didn't care anymore, my ex had left me for her girlfriend and I bought a plane ticket and went to see my friend.
emotion_c8
I would never push anyone to do anything they don't want, and like hell would I let someone do that to me now.