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Alien Abductee

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are you insinuating that slapping people with my left hand, though im right handed is still hitting them? thats silly
Because if they actually stopped to look at it through a logical perspective,
their brains would simply short circuit.
And then their ego would be crushed...
somehow along with their d**k size.
And we all know they cant have that.
Plus, all of that would give us gender equality and god forbid could you even imagine?

Shy Pumpkin

yeah, fetishism of lesbians is basically the root of why guys don't consider it cheating
it's ******** disgusting that:
1. men in a "monogamous" relationship don't consider that cheating, cause, it ******** is
2. that two people of the same sex can't just be left in peace to do their frickity frack without some ******** creeps whacking off it it or the idea of it


imo, porn contributes a lot to this, they see it all over porn and so that gives them the impression that that is how rl relationships are or should be

Sparkly Bunny

it doesnt involve you
it doesnt matter

Sparkly Lunatic

It think cheating depends entirely on what you as a couple consider okay in a relationship.

Hellraiser

Nothing
Because people are stupid.

Hellraiser

Ida Clair
It think cheating depends entirely on what you as a couple consider okay in a relationship.
u are gorgeous wtf

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When I first dated my ex he wanted to have a threesome, or really joked about it. But even the joke made me feel uncomfortable. My standpoint is that I should be enough, if you need another girl to come in here and join in then I'm not the girl for you because the moment you touch her you're cheating on me and from then on I will gauge every single thing I do to what she did and probably never feel like I measure up. It may be a little crazy or irational, but that's how I feel and I wont be swayed, whoever doesn't like it can just not date me.


I feel you girl... I ALWAYS thought that too, the comparing myself to them, and the wondering if I was enough. It's not a good feeling... It definitely made me uncomfortable, because even if you try to stand up for yourself, you're pushed down by the decades of lesbian-oversexualization that make your boyfriend and all of his friends laugh at you for thinking its a bad thing... emotion_8c

Genyusai
yeah... She had a male friend since childhood who was gay (then bi then straight then bi now he's gay again). He has basically no concept of personal space, is very huggy with people and had the hots for me for a long time. She kept pestering me to "Try it" or at least make out with him. euugh...

It's nice to know at least some people take their relationships seriously. In this day and age of instant gratification, instant messaging and instant noodles, people treat relationships like things and things like people.

I don't find it "cool", I don't feel it's "ok", if you're bi but want a relationship with me, it won't work. I'm not going to go against the natural order of things. There are urges that she will find stronger than the link to commitment. I know a lot of women "don't know what they want", but bisexuality is an issue THEY have to work on, Not saying being bi is bad, just saying it's not good to do things in a relationship that only benefit one person but can harm the other.


I get it, and I've heard it before. Guy's and girl's are afraid to date bi's because bi's tend to have commitment issues and flit around to people; but I look at people like my Aunty, who dated guys and girls up until she was almost 35, and is now happily married to a guy. She says she still find women attractive, still feels turned on by them, still thinks about them as any bi might, but her commitment and love to/of her husband just outweighs the thought of cheating. I think it's really possible to be bi and prove your loyalty- I always say the issue isn't the sexuality, it's the quality of the person with the sexuality. If they want an open relationship and just don't understand that about themselves yet, that can be as detrimental as if they DO understand that they don't want to commit to one person but do so anyways and end up hurting them both in the future. There's nothing wrong with experimenting with your sexuality, but when you're unaware of how you're affecting your significant other, it really reflects on your own level of personal growth and empathy.

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EatYourECHmeal
Because men are weird?
this is not exclusive to men...


if my boyfriend told me that he cheated on me with a guy, I'd just shrug it off because I wouldn't give a s**t

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Oh my god nope. If I was dating a guy and then years later he was like 'btw i've been having buttsex with several guys" i'd be floored. and probably shred his face.
Like, I'm not a person who can share. I don't want to, I shouldn't have to. If you don't tell me this s**t before we become a thing i'm going to rip your eyes out later when I find out because I'll be hurt. One because I was essentially lied to, and two I'd have wasted time investing myself into a relationship that ultimately will not work out because you can't force someone to change their sexuality.


Yeaaah that's why I've been single for.. um.. 3-4 years almost now maybe. I did "date" someone I met on gaia, haha, if you can call it that. Was mostly limited to skype calls and a few romantic letters. But her messages got spaced out further apart, fewer and fewer, and now she's moved on. Haven't spoken to her in a while...

I still don't know if I could invest myself irl anymore.. there just aren't *any* women my age who aren't already married or with kids or mental issues (30). I don't want to mess around with a girl who's 10 years younger either...

I'm like you, I can't really invest myself emotionally 100% into someone who wants to see other people.

Sparkly Lunatic

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u are gorgeous wtf
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EatYourECHmeal
Because men are weird?
this is not exclusive to men...


if my boyfriend told me that he cheated on me with a guy, I'd just shrug it off because I wouldn't give a s**t


I'm sorry, I wasn't listening... was lost in your gorgeous smile... emotion_kirakira

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Genyusai
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EatYourECHmeal
Because men are weird?
this is not exclusive to men...


if my boyfriend told me that he cheated on me with a guy, I'd just shrug it off because I wouldn't give a s**t


I'm sorry, I wasn't listening... was lost in your gorgeous smile... emotion_kirakira
redface aw thank you very much

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You have to understand each relationship has its own rules.

Super Fatcat

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are you insinuating that slapping people with my left hand, though im right handed is still hitting them? thats silly


why cant I tip this post 1mil good god i love you

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