Stereo Conspiracy
Oh my god nope. If I was dating a guy and then years later he was like 'btw i've been having buttsex with several guys" i'd be floored. and probably shred his face.
Like, I'm not a person who can share. I don't want to, I shouldn't have to. If you don't tell me this s**t before we become a thing i'm going to rip your eyes out later when I find out because I'll be hurt. One because I was essentially lied to, and two I'd have wasted time investing myself into a relationship that ultimately will not work out because you can't force someone to change their sexuality.
Yeaaah that's why I've been single for.. um.. 3-4 years almost now maybe. I did "date" someone I met on gaia, haha, if you can call it that. Was mostly limited to skype calls and a few romantic letters. But her messages got spaced out further apart, fewer and fewer, and now she's moved on. Haven't spoken to her in a while...
I still don't know if I could invest myself irl anymore.. there just aren't *any* women my age who aren't already married or with kids or mental issues (30). I don't want to mess around with a girl who's 10 years younger either...
I'm like you, I can't really invest myself emotionally 100% into someone who wants to see other people.