SadGhost1999
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- Posted: Thu, 22 Jan 2015 06:23:12 +0000
The reason why I'm so giddy about hanging with this person is because I absolutely have no friends . Never have. Here's some background information on yours truly:
I've never had friends. I'm almost 28 and I can say honestly that I never had a friend for more than one year. I was attacked and molested by 18 people when I was 15 and my "friends" sided with them. Family and extended family said that it's because I'm not a likable person. Went to a shrink and I'm on meds blah blah blah.
So basically people don't like me for whatever reason. I don't know if it's I'm mentally retarded or something off putting about me. I just want to have a normal hangout with this person. What I'm worried about is that I might think that we can actually be friends and then suddenly I'll be ignored like many times before. It usually hurts me deeply when I suddenly start believe that I can make friends and then it blows up on my face.
Any advice on how to be likable?
I've never had friends. I'm almost 28 and I can say honestly that I never had a friend for more than one year. I was attacked and molested by 18 people when I was 15 and my "friends" sided with them. Family and extended family said that it's because I'm not a likable person. Went to a shrink and I'm on meds blah blah blah.
So basically people don't like me for whatever reason. I don't know if it's I'm mentally retarded or something off putting about me. I just want to have a normal hangout with this person. What I'm worried about is that I might think that we can actually be friends and then suddenly I'll be ignored like many times before. It usually hurts me deeply when I suddenly start believe that I can make friends and then it blows up on my face.
Any advice on how to be likable?